How can you be sure that a boy likes you?

Rather than obsessing about whether this boy likes you or not, it is more important to know whether this boy is worthy of your liking.

The development of interpersonal relationship, from strangers to acquaintances, from acquaintances to ordinary friends, from ordinary friends to good friends, wants to go up a storey still higher. Before exchanging ideas, two people will be in the relationship of good friends and lovers, which is ambiguous.

For example, he approaches you, chats with you, pays attention to you and praises you, which are all signals to release good feelings.

This is the most common kind of love, but it is not easy to determine whether the boy's love has risen to the level of wanting to be with you. Moreover, some boys are very skilled in love and seem to have paid a lot for you, but they are all routines.

There is a movie called "In fact, he doesn't like you that much". When this man doesn't tell you openly and directly, and he is still in an ambiguous state, then he really doesn't like you that much.

More importantly, is he worthy of your liking?

Don't tell me how good this boy you like is. No matter how good he is, it's his, not yours. This is not the standard to like him.

First of all, you should see if this boy is a principled person, a kind person and a responsible person.

Many girls are confused by each other's excellent conditions and have no idea about each other's character, which is extremely unwise. Principles, kindness and sense of responsibility can at least ensure that this boy is a clear-headed, emotional person who knows what he wants. This also largely avoids the vacillation and ruthlessness of the other party in the future.

On the other hand, it depends on whether he has exchanged you for the same value in his heart. At this point, honey, don't worry. If you think it's worth giving the other person a chance, observe him more when you get along with him.

Intimacy is an essential course and pass in our life, as the famous writer Moliere said-

Love is a great teacher who teaches us to turn over a new leaf.

Yao Zhitian Wen, nicknamed Vagrancy, is a master of communication at China Renmin University and a psychosomatic physician. Cognitive upgrading, living high. Personal micro signal: rryy314; ; Wechat official account: love-knowledge.