What is the personal experience of teacher-student love?

I am a high school teacher. Thirty-five years old, male, single. ?

Last year I taught a new class, and a girl showed extraordinary love to me.

If we talk about the relationship between teacher and student, it will definitely not reach her level.

Add me on WeChat and stick to me during all spring and autumn outings. You run to the office again and again, not to ask questions, but just to chat with me. Candies and greeting cards often appear on the desk, but I put them away for her.

I also deliberately avoided her, but she didn't seem to understand what I meant. ?

Why am I so sure? Because I once asked her to go to the blackboard and write a question, and the students below were all booing. She has a loud mouth and can never hide a secret.

It wasn’t until she finished the final exam this year that she confessed her love to me. Unexpected but reasonable.

I talked with her for a long time. The general idea is to let her study hard, get into a good university, and find a job she loves. I will get along with her again and start as a completely equal. ?

I put all the things she had on my desk in a box and gave them to her. She kept crying, and as a teacher, all I could do was comfort her. ?

She already has a tendency to be isolated. I heard a boy at the classroom door scolding her for seducing the teacher, bitch.

I found all the kids who bullied her and had a good talk with them. Tell them to treat her well and never speak of it again.

Adolescent excitement is normal and should not be treated differently. They should also understand what I mean. They are all grown up children and know what I mean. ?

Our school has two campuses. There is a teacher in another campus who is pregnant and needs someone to cover the class. My colleagues don’t want to go because the campus is far away. ?

In the end, I chose to work as a substitute. Colleagues were puzzled. ?

Only I know why. The secondary reason is that there are many promotion opportunities in that campus. The main reason is that if I stay here, the girl will be embarrassed. I am also afraid that one day I will lose control and really be with her.

I can't let her down. ?

She should study hard. ?

As an ordinary high school teacher, I want to say something to the students:

Do you like the teacher as a person, or do you like him to tutor alone while writing on the blackboard? Gentle and handsome when answering questions and participating in activities? ?

If it’s the latter, then please think again.

The relationship between teachers and students is inherently unequal. He shines brightly on the podium, but when he gets off the podium, he has to face the unbearable situation of a middle-aged man. He will be hungover, puff up, cry helplessly, swear, and even vent to the people around him for no reason. ?

Most teachers have families.

Please think about it, his married wife has been with him through so many years of ups and downs. She is extremely frail. She has to bear heavy housework, comfort noisy children, and deal with complicated work every day. Her life You can't live without him.

A middle-aged man, a middle-aged man who slumps on the sofa after work every day, a middle-aged man who occasionally washes the dishes, a middle-aged man who can help children with their homework, is like a house in the wind and rain. lighthouse. But now, there is a beautiful girl who wants to steal her harbor. There was nothing she could do.

Since your teacher can abandon his wife, he can also wait until you become a yellow-faced woman to find a new love. Tell me, was she as gorgeous as you back then? ?

Of course, there are single teachers.

Just like what I said to the girl before, when you break away from the teacher-student relationship and you two are equal, you can then decide whether to entrust your life to him.

After leaving school, you can see his shortcomings more intuitively. ?

Child, read carefully and he will be very happy. ?