Don't forget your initial intention and move forward happily.

Reading while sleeping has been my habit for many years. I can always get magazines such as Reader, Yilin and Germination at my bedside. As the babies grew up, I ordered children's books such as The King of Fairy Tales, The King of Humor and Little Copernicus. They also learn from me. When they go to bed, they are often attracted by the words in the book and urge them to close the book several times before falling asleep sweetly.

Readers who read the tenth issue of 20 17 yesterday were moved by the article "Hidden Children". The author wrote down her daughter's schooling experience honestly, with deep affection and helplessness between the lines. From a father's point of view, I thought about our beautiful original intention and cruel deviation in educating our children. The deep fatherly love between the lines made me want to stop, read it carefully over and over again, and recommended it to me. The two discussed the content of the article. The original intention of education is to let children discover themselves, let them discover and affirm themselves. It's not the round and flat operation of plastic. In the end, the child's innocent nature is almost worn out and becomes boring.

After listening to our discussion, the little darling pushed away the "King of Fairy Tales" in his hand and read this article carefully. After reading it, she took a long breath. Fortunately, Sister Qiu doesn't have to hide anymore ... Then she quickly turned to her favorite comic humor page, her mouth turned up and she read happily. I have subscribed to Reader for many years. When I get the magazine, I read the comic humor version first, and I often laugh myself. I couldn't help laughing. She saw it in her eyes and learned it in her hands. She also likes humorous jokes and small jokes in The Reader and Yilin. Sometimes she would laugh and roll on the bed with her belly in her arms, and she would tell it to her brother. The scene where two heads meet * * * See a joke * * * Smiling and patting each other's thighs is an indelible mark no matter how things change. It is deeply imprinted in my mind.

Recently, they are all reading Wind in the Willows. The younger brother's is a phonetic version, and the little girl's is a young version without phonetic notation. Mom, I have to read the book Question written by Ding Jie in the training class of the Party School carefully, and then take time to make it more beautiful and substantial. Although, sometimes, I am confused and entangled in the face of my brother's unsatisfactory school experience feedback, through serious dialogue and communication with myself and my family, I choose to accept, accept my imperfect self and accept everything from my children. Good or bad is relative, and happy growth is the real original intention and ultimate goal.

Just like at the end of the article "The Hidden Child", my father wrote: In the process of education, no one should be abandoned. It is wrong for parents to abandon their children, and it is wrong for teachers to abandon their children. And children themselves have no reason to give up, because if they give up, it is not just education that is hopeless, but human beings are hopeless. Yes, all of us can't give up easily. We still have to forget our initial intentions and move forward happily. ...