I don't know why. Today, my friend said I was like a dissatisfied housewife, complaining too much.

What people say when they are upset is basically a complaining tone. When they say something normally, others sound like complaining. The most important thing is to see if you are in a bad mood, upset or always pessimistic. When an optimist says something annoying, it sounds more like a joke than a complaint. The point is not what to talk about, but what kind of mentality you have to talk about. For example, if you have problems with friends, friends are the best. You can tell her the best things as a joke instead of always saying how much you hate her.

I believe that with the change of your mentality, the transmission of this negative emotion will be reduced.