The truth of love is too difficult: don't expect love to make your life better.

First, moving is not a heartbeat, don't be soft-hearted.

When you doubt whether he still loves you, he doesn't love you so much.

Third, don't expect love to make your life better.

Fourth, love at first sight is to see the color, and love over time is to weigh the pros and cons.

Fifth, a woman chasing a man's barrier yarn must not chase it backwards, and it is difficult for the other party to cherish you.

6. People who keep saying that they may leave you will really leave you.

Seven, don't take anyone as your whole life.

Eight, don't expect a person to unconditionally love all your bad temper.

9. Any frustration before marriage is a signal of emotional problems. Don't think that everything will be peaceful after the wedding.

Ten, the twisted melon is not sweet, and the forced love is not thorough.

Eleven, even if you have been very close, you may turn against each other.

Don't look at what the other person says, look at what the other person does.

Thirteen, derailment is the bottom line, don't think it will only happen once.

It is more important to hate the same things than to have the same interests.

Fifteen, first love the three views, give you the feeling, and then look at the appearance.

16, don't dig deep into the secret, curiosity kills the cat, will only add to yourself.

17. Don't overdo it.

18. It will be better to break up without dragging your feet, and begging for mercy will only make the other party look down on you.

Nineteen, the reason for liking you will actually become the reason for breaking up.

Twenty, no one needs to know interesting souls through ugly skins.

Twenty-one, learn to stop loss in time, the three views will not be separated immediately, don't waste it.

I really don't like you if I don't contact you, not because I'm busy.

23. His behavior is decent and gentle. A gentleman may have been taught by his ex-girlfriend.

24. It's really important to be suitable for each other.

25. If the other person pushes his luck, reflect on whether he is too timid.

26. No one is a fool. He can always feel your kindness to him. Playing dumb all the time means that he is not interested in you.

Maybe you only love the feeling he brings, not him.

28. Don't stay where you are. Don't think that everything will be fine if you find a boyfriend, and your feelings may collapse at any time.

Twenty-nine, after leaving school, you can't just consider whether you like it or not.

30. Boys who are stingy with girls are generally selfish and not necessarily materialistic.

Thirty-one, you are not necessarily the first, the last, or his favorite.

The prodigal son won't look back for you. You are ordinary.

33. Ambiguity means that I don't like you enough.

34. Men are more realistic than women.

Don't rely too much on a person, it will scare him away.

Thirty-six, the heart is actually difficult to hold on to it, even if you become a pillow person.

Thirty-seven, dopamine secretion time is almost two years.

38. If you love him again, as long as he does this to you, there is no need to stay.

39. The one who loves more has no right to speak.

Forty, don't test feelings. If you can stand the test, you don't deserve this relationship. If you can't stand the test, you will be sad.

Pay for every choice you make, but eat it yourself.

It is always important to keep in good shape and make yourself more beautiful.

Forty-four, don't take feelings as everything, no one can't kill you.

Forty-five, rekindling the old love is equal to repeating the same mistakes.

Forty-six, don't talk fast, will you be happy even if you win the quarrel?

Forty-seven, Xiu En 'ai is cautious and will be tested by time.

48. If you love someone again, you should leave room for yourself.

49. Being nice to you doesn't mean you are special. The next treatment may be the same as yours.

50. Don't look at how good a person is when he is kind to you, but how much he can't bear to hurt you.

10 heartfelt emotional quotations, which people who have loved are most afraid of seeing.

No matter how good things are, there will be a lost day, and there will be a day to wake up in a beautiful dream. I will do what I want with love, give up without hesitation, and never let go of what I should catch-Shakespeare.

Love is always a thousand turns. How can we love without being abandoned or hurt? Amy Cheung

Love is not complicated at first, but three words come and go, either I love you or I hate you, so forget it. How are you? Sorry.-Zhang Xiaoxian

We should study hard to smile and eventually become a person who can't cry. Ao Guo

When a woman is looking at the sky, she doesn't want to look for anything. She is just lonely. -Annie, baby

Some people leave and never come back, so waiting and hesitation are the most ruthless killers in this world! -San Mao

It's best not to meet each other, so you won't fall in love. -Cangyang Jiacuo

For many years, you have been living in seclusion in my wound. I let go of heaven and earth, but I never let go of you. I can say goodbye to Qianshan in my life. -Cangyang Jiacuo

In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership or even love. I just met you in my most beautiful years. -Xu Zhimo

When I guessed the answer, I found that the party was over and everything was over. When I guessed the answer, I found that it was all over, and the years had already changed the puzzle. -Xi Murong

Love advice, girls must see, 15 suggestions, can make love better.

1, all the favors are unreasonable! So! When! However! Yes

In this world, except your parents will treat you unconditionally, any other pet is because of love.

Therefore, don't be arrogant and don't spend too much on human feelings.

If others are good to you, you should be good to others.

Love is mutual, always remember this.

2. If there are shortcomings, we should correct them.

Doesn't mean that you like me and love me, you have to love my shortcomings unconditionally. Even if my shortcoming is really wrong, you can't urge me to correct it.

Such behavior and such thoughts will only make him patient and love you in the end.

Out! Grinding! Almost! Do it!

3. Don't like someone reluctantly because you are moved and suitable.

Perhaps, you will comfort yourself that after a long time, I will definitely like him.

The truth is, I don't like it at all.

From the beginning, the starting point is because he is kind to you, because you are moved, and in the end, instead of having love, it will make you feel more and more guilty.

The longer it takes, the worse it gets!

4. Work? Yes, but in moderation! ! !

There is no rule that girls can't.

Even if you do it well, you can enhance your feelings.

However, if what you do makes the other person disgusted and doesn't help your feelings, isn't it worth the loss?

It's like you like to eat. If you eat hard, you may not be able to hold on and you may get indigestion. Working for a long time is equivalent to overeating for a long time, and in the end, it will definitely hurt.

When quarreling, don't forgive each other casually.

After the quarrel, he coaxed you a little, and you'll be fine. Over time, he formed a fixed idea in his mind:

It doesn't matter much if I do it anyway. After that, you can coax it a little.

Finally, he will gradually violate your bottom line. Time and time again, in his eyes, you are a bully, easy to talk, and increasingly unimportant image.

The correct way is:

After quarreling with each other, communicate calmly, solve the problem, and then solemnly forgive him.

Quarrel and forgiveness also need a sense of ceremony.

6. Cheating is really unforgivable.

Speaking of bad things, dogs can't change their habits. Just like a man who has cheated, he will cheat for the second time. This is also nature.

Don't watch him cry after the first derailment, and swear that he will correct it. There won't be a second derailment, and people may still think you are useful.

Unforgiven!

7. Don't be a man without ambition.

Man, don't bully the poor.

You can be poor, but you should have a heart to make progress for you. Otherwise, unlike salted fish, it doesn't mean that you have a heart that is indifferent to fame and fortune and wants a plain life.

Now that house prices are so high, children need money to go to school in the future!

I want to make progress! !

A person who loves you will certainly make progress for you, grow up with you and make progress with you, instead of holding you back.

8, the boy's oath, sweet words, just listen.

There is no need to take it seriously,

People who have lived so long and vowed to live with you all their lives may also leave halfway.

9, lower expectations, don't blindly trust a person.

Just like Zhihu's fucking child said:

It's not that men don't have good things, but when you expect too much from a person, you will feel that none of them are good things.

If you don't expect from the beginning, you won't be disappointed.

10, we should not only enjoy the right to love, but also fulfill the obligation to love.

Boys and girls are like this.

Because people are naturally selfish,

Falling in love makes many people enjoy the sweetness, sense of belonging and stability of love.

However, while enjoying these things, we should also fulfill our obligation of love.

For example, take good care of each other and show up in time when the other person is sad.

For example, learn to be patient and let two people get along more and more.

Many people, after enjoying the right to love, find that they have to fulfill their obligations and undertake bad things in love, so they immediately give up and start looking for the next relationship.

I just want to say that such people are too selfish.

With all due respect, you can never be happy if you only enjoy your rights and don't fulfill your obligations.

1 1, low-quality love is not as good as high-quality solitude.

Now some girls really see others falling in love and showing their love, and they feel that they should talk about one quickly, even if they don't love it.

They love each other not because of love, but because of loneliness, because of loneliness.

A smart girl will be alone with high quality, make herself better, meet better people, and meet people she really likes and loves.

I hope you are such a girl.

12, learn to take the initiative.

When quarreling, learn to communicate actively and solve problems.

When the relationship enters the fatigue period,

Learn to take the initiative to find ways to adjust.

Learn to communicate actively when there are problems in sexual life.

I feel that boys don't value you, don't give you a sense of security, and don't deserve you. Yes, you can. Take the initiative to tell him and see what he does next.

Don't hold it in your heart and wait for the other party to find the problem on their own initiative.

Many times, the other person is not a worm in your stomach and has no idea what you really want.

13, don't treat the boy's kindness to you as he owes you, he doesn't owe you, everyone is an only child, everyone is the apple of his family's eye, and being kind to you is because of love.

14. Respect a boy's independent personality. If he has any hobbies, as long as they are normal, he is allowed to do them.

Crazy discipline, turn him into the person in your mind, this is just in the name of love, think for yourself.

Someone said in the Zhihu:

Smoking, drinking, perming, staying up late, indulging in games and other bad habits made him quit, and once found, he was seriously troubled. Believe me, this is the safest way to stick to people, and no boy will understand people.

Yes, we really need to use this method for these bad habits, but we don't like what boys like, so we should respect them and don't slander what they like.

If boys play games properly, smoke a few cigarettes occasionally, stay up late properly, make some good friends and play basketball after work.

These can be respected. Boys will understand your respect and give you more feedback.

15, don't hurt yourself for a man.

Silly girl, the world is so rich and wonderful, and there are so many good men, you don't have to hang yourself from a tree.

Suicide is a waste of youth for a man and a relationship.

Finally:

This 15 proposal is not comprehensive.

Many times, love needs concrete analysis of specific problems, but it must be remembered that don't lose yourself because you love someone, don't lose yourself.

Life is never easy, but you are getting stronger little by little.

Guide: life is picturesque, which makes people appreciate it carefully; Success requires hard work and patience. The taste of life is interdependent, and people are not objects, so they don't need to be displayed in front of others at any time and place for others to see at a glance. Leave some space for yourself. When you are happy or sad, put your soul in your pure space, let time and wisdom continue to bloom happily, or comfort your soul.

1. I'm not afraid of being stabbed in the back. I'm afraid that when I look back, I'll see that the man who stabbed me in the back is the one I treated with my heart. I'm not afraid to tell my best friend the truth. I'm afraid he will tell it as a joke in the future.

Only when you stand in a very high and far position can you see clearly that the boundaries between people are very small, maybe there are no boundaries at all. When we are far away from words and right and wrong, all our existence truly reveals its original value. One moment, we may cry happily, the next moment, we may cry sadly, but the road always extends forward; The river always keeps moving forward.

The proudest thing a man can say in his life is that his wife is waiting for me to eat at home.

I know very well that the future does not belong to those who are hesitant, but to those who will persevere and never give up once they make up their minds.

Everyone you meet in life, the order of appearance is really important. Many people will have different endings if they meet at another time.

6. If you have something to say, you have to say it if you are dissatisfied, you have to vent your emotions, and you have to say it if you have love. Our youth will soon pass, so don't be on tenterhooks all day.

7, the ideal love is like this: dead vines and old trees, fish and shrimp for dinner, air-conditioned WiFi watermelon, sunset, you are ugly and blind!

8. I used to think that a friend would last a lifetime. Once my friend left, I felt betrayed, but I gradually found that if someone left, someone would come back. Even if my former friend broke contact, the friendship was still buried in my memory. Love has an end, but righteousness is still there. See you in the Jianghu. Take care.

9. Nobody cares how wronged you are. Nobody cares how many nights you cried. Nobody cares about your vulnerability. You have to face it alone. Nobody cares about you except yourself.

10, before love comes, please try to make yourself better, try to make yourself more mature and try to make yourself more independent, because no one takes it for granted that you are good to you, and the prerequisite for wanting to be loved all the time is that you deserve it.

1 1. Trust is fragile. If you get it, you should take good care of it. Once destroyed, hundreds of smiles can't be repaired.

12, sometimes I feel stupid. I don't like to fight for credit, say nice things, climb over others, and fiddle with all the survival skills that can lead a better life in this world. It's not that I'm not smart enough, but that I think it's better to be down-to-earth than to show off my intelligence, and hard work is better than hypocrisy. Maybe many people think you are not successful enough, but at least you are really happy.

13, it is very important that two people can talk together. He can always pick up the point you threw him and throw it back. It's like talking cross talk, and you're still laughing in the process. Two people who can do without pretending, joking or bumping into each other are so happy.

14, you will meet someone in your life who will break your principles, change your habits and become your exception.

15, don't be reckless just because others are soft-hearted. Deception and betrayal are always the most annoying. Everyone has a bottom line and is soft-hearted only because others are kind. When others are cruel, even if you take out your heart and kneel down, it is too late.

16. If you don't want others to look down on you, you have to let others admire you from the bottom of your heart. No matter in work feelings or in study, you can't deny yourself or lose confidence because of someone else's words. Although they laugh at you and despise you, it doesn't matter. The only thing you can do now is to be better than them. Reality only looks at the results, not the process.

17. If you know too much and watch too much, you will become an orphan of the world.

18, the shame of some men lies in: they want to find a woman to serve themselves like a mother, but they refuse to accept it like a son; I want to find a girl who is as clever and clingy as my daughter, but not as hurtful as my father.

19, in fact, there is really no need to care too much about what others say about you. It is a waste of time to explain to people who hate you. The more you fight back, the more he talks. Without even looking at himself, such a person simply lacks the sense of existence to show the lower limit. People who have nothing to do with you will never have anything to do with you. Don't pay attention to them or take them seriously.

20. All our waiting is just to meet the right person.

2 1, in this dark but lonely night, listen to a sad music, watch the sad words written by yourself, and then slowly give your heart to sadness, indulge in sadness, think in sadness, and experience another kind of truth and beauty in sadness.

22. We should learn to manage our own life, not just muddling along every day, but enjoying every day. If you have a simple mind, you will have the mind to manage your life; If life is simple, you will have time to enjoy it. It is not difficult to live simply, just know how to live for yourself, live for beauty and do for happiness. More happiness, less sadness; More truth, less hypocrisy; More leisure, less fuss.

Giving up doesn't always mean that you are weak, but sometimes it means that you are strong enough to give up.

24. You must have money in your heart, then you can get rid of those similarities with other people's lives.

25. Besides going up every day, you should also know how to go down every day. Go down every day to learn to bend over; It is to do things in a high-profile manner, to be a low-key person, and to put down the shelf; Just don't show your edge and open your mind like a valley; Neither humble nor supercilious, not successful. If daily progress is the goal, then daily progress is a life attitude, a communication strategy and a philosophy of life.

26. Happiness is actually a feeling. Just like a candle, when you walk through thousands of lights, there is always a warm fluorescent light to illuminate your way home; Just like a lingering aftertaste, ups and downs are the pursuit; Just like a longing, you can still be happy and have no regrets when you expect the wrinkles of the years to climb over your forehead. Happiness is a cup of imagination, dreaming of brewing ordinary Gu Mi into the fragrance of fine wine, and then waiting and cherishing it with life.

27. I overdraw my tears and be myself without liver and lungs. If one day, I become indifferent, please remember that you are busy when I need company. If one day, I become arrogant, please remember that no one has ever put me in my heart. If one day, I no longer care about you, please remember that you have never heard my thoughts. If one day, I stop smiling at you, please remember that you never asked me if I was happy.

28. Anyone who lives in a city and has read several books knows that self-confidence needs to be maintained and cultivated. Living in criticism for a long time can be regarded as a kind of language violence and a chronic psychological torture. Everyone has advantages and disadvantages, and people's attention is limited. When we focus on the shortcomings, we will ignore the advantages.

29. For the past, you can recall and don't dwell on it. Without colorful memories, life will be bleak; Curling up in the past will bear the weight of the distance and alienate the scenery in front of you. Try to let yesterday's sunshine shine on today's life, report the time with a smile and give warmth to indifference. No matter what God has done, don't blame and complain. What you have now is the best. If you wrongly blame the past, you will miss the future.

When your talent can't support your ability, you should calm down and study.

3 1, in fact, the fate of classmates or colleagues is sometimes exhausted. If we turn an individual into a lifelong love or close friend, the fate will be a little longer, but most of us just meet by chance for a short time. This is life.

32. Many pains in life are caused by not being able to distinguish between needs and desires. The less you need, the easier it is to meet; The more eager, the more disappointed. Too much of our disappointment and dissatisfaction stems from excessive demands on life. If we can distinguish between needs and desires, plan our own needs reasonably and restrain our desires appropriately, our sense of satisfaction will be stronger and our happiness will be more.

An old saying goes well: "I was worried about my broken shoes until I met a man with no feet." It is much better to be grateful for your health than to complain about what's wrong with you. Being grateful for your health can effectively prevent all kinds of pains and diseases.

34. People should stand up to lies, perfunctory, cheating, forgetting promises and letting go of everything.

Under the pretext of "I'm not smart enough", almost 95% people have this problem, but to varying degrees. This excuse is unusual. It is usually silent. People don't openly admit that they are not intelligent enough. Most people think so in their own hearts.

36. When you dare not realize your dreams, your dreams will get farther and farther away from you; When you bravely pursue your dreams, the whole world will come to help you.

37. Life is never easy, but you are getting stronger little by little.

38. The most common excuse is health. The phrase "I am in poor health" or "I have such pain" becomes the reason for failure. In fact, no one is completely healthy, and everyone will have some physical problems.

When I grow up, I feel separated from my parents. I don't know what to say or where to start. You think your parents don't understand you, so you don't understand them. Let's do whatever we want for our parents, even one thing, before it's too late.

40. Sometimes it is ourselves who refuse true love. We are afraid, even afraid. We think from the bottom of our hearts that we will not be loved, because we seldom love others without selfishness. Refuse to pay, refuse to be serious, and don't want to love until you have confirmed that the other person's love is fierce in countless tests, but often at this time, the person who loves you has turned away.

Editor's note: Open the yellow title page, and fate will bind it badly. I read and reread with tears in my eyes, but I have to admit that youth is a book that is too hasty. What you can't get rid of is the memory, but what you can't keep is the years. In fact, life is very simple. If you get it, you will get it. If you don't get it, you won't get it. However, don't have any regrets when it's time to end, because that's the end.