Husbands always make a fool of themselves in front of their in-laws. What kind of psychology is it?

Tell me my personal opinion. I feel that this husband's vanity is still at work, showing his male identity in front of his parents. A man keeps his word in front of his wife, which is a bit male chauvinistic.

In fact, if a smart wife understands this, she will give her husband more face outside, try to echo him on the surface, give priority to him, show gentleness and virtue, and let him satisfy his vanity.

Don't you think it's good to clean him up when you get home and make yourself soft outside and hard inside?

It is very likely that your husband used to be a mother, and the mother was always afraid that her son would be taken away or bullied by her daughter-in-law. So show his parents that he is a confidante between you.

If you get along well and treat you well in front of people other than your parents-in-law, my guess is that your parents-in-law may not be satisfied with you when you get married, and your husband may embarrass you in front of your parents-in-law. The first possibility is that my parents don't like her very much in his mind. If I treat my daughter-in-law too well, my parents will feel even worse. In order to make my parents comfortable, it is also a kind of ingratiation to embarrass you in front of their parents! The second possibility is that when your husband chose you, he said too much about you in front of his in-laws. To prove this statement, he deliberately embarrassed you in front of your in-laws. The purpose of embarrassing you is to show your in-laws how virtuous my wife is. I treat her like this at home. She is as obedient as a sheep. At the same time, it also proves to parents that he is the head of the family at home and you can only listen to him.

I can understand what you said. My husband was in this state at the beginning. My analysis is to show his family status in front of his family. Men are somewhat face-saving. When my wife is away, she will try to cooperate with me and communicate with me if something happens. My husband can pretend in front of his comrades. Sometimes I can tolerate a few words. If I don't twist him when I go home, I'll pay back all the gas I hold back.

Maybe your emotional intelligence is low, or maybe for your husband, his parents are more important than you in his heart, which makes you embarrassed. There may be a mentality that the three of them watch your jokes together and play with you, and tell his parents that even if you get married, I will still be closer to you.

Then if I either don't meet his parents or die on the spot, my face is mutual and I have the ability to earn it myself. Don't always want to suppress my own woman to make faces.