Extramarital love, what you think is true love, is it really a joke?

The best feeling should be to meet the right person at the right time, and the most tormenting feeling may be to meet the right person at the wrong time. Many extramarital affairs were originally defined as meeting the right person at the wrong time. They clearly love each other and want to be with each other, but when they meet, they already have a fixed lover around them, which is very sad, helpless and painful. But extramarital love, what you think is true love, is it really a joke? This article will briefly share this knowledge:

In addition to marriage, there are many married women who feel that they have met true love, so they are him in their hearts and in their dreams, and even look forward to the happy picture of living with him. But when they open their eyes, their dreams are shattered by reality, and people will be unable to restrain their sadness. I understand this kind of love very well, because what you can't get is beautiful, and the people you meet in the future are fresh, but I don't know if a woman who falls in love with a man outside of marriage has ever thought that if the beautiful distance between you is broken, he will really love you.

But there may be true love in extramarital affairs. First of all, what he met outside marriage was his ideal type. In this case, it may be true love. Some people don't get married in two of a kind, while others are forced by family pressure. For example, they think they should get married when they are old. If they don't get married, they will be sorry for their parents, so they get married to give their parents an explanation and then carry on the family line. So they got married, but the person who got married was not their ideal object, not the make-do type they hated. But after marriage, suddenly one day, they met the ideal object that had been hidden somewhere in their hearts, and their hearts were full of true love, so even after they got married, they were still struggling to pursue that person, so most of the extramarital affairs in this case were true love.

Another possibility is that the extramarital affair caused by the reunion of the first lover may be true love. First love is beautiful and unforgettable. Some people are separated from their first love for various reasons, but they never forget their first love. When they think it is impossible to marry their first love, they just find someone. But the first love after marriage suddenly came back to him, and the person who has been missing and admiring in his heart came to him. He must be filled with emotion and feel back to the past. So even if you get married, you will forget your wife at home and have fun with your first love. So they also have real feelings in this situation.

In the so-called true love outside marriage, women are easy to wander. If she hesitates, her life, feelings and work will become very chaotic. The loss of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss will seize every gap and torment a woman's heart, but men can generally switch rationally. When I miss you, you are his treasure, but when I am at home, you forget it. In fact, the truth outside marriage is just a well-designed scam, which is specially used to deceive women who are tempted at once. Knowing that it is wrong, but not opposing it, knowing that it should not be started, it is easy to be moved by so-called love. One or two sweet words can make her believe it. Many men like this kind of woman who can be tempted at once. Men who really know the truth will restrain themselves for love, either divorce and insist on true love, or keep their distance and fulfill each other for love, instead of saying love while possessing it and not promising not to pay. Of course, I won't love you at the same time. I will love many women at the same time.