Two years ago, a Ukrainian beauty fell in love with a 40-year-old uncle from Henan. How was your marriage?

Yan, a poet in the Northern Song Dynasty, wrote a sentence in Partridge Sky: "After parting, I remember meeting you. A few times, I dreamed of being with you. I am afraid it is a dream to meet you tonight. " It is about the reunion of the poet and his beloved woman, filled with joy. Ancient communication was underdeveloped, and once lovers separated, they might never see each other again in this life.

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Nowadays, social tools are developed. Just making a phone call or using social software leads to a lot of online dating. Unlike in ancient times, when flying pigeons passed books and exchanged letters, two people who were far apart had to meet each other for ten days and a half months, or even longer, which made their feelings particularly precious and appreciated each other. In the information age, online dating seems to be more frequent, although some are malicious and some find true love through online dating, but only rarely.

▲ Wedding photos of Shen Maotao and Marina.

For example, 28-year-old Marina and 49-year-old Henan takeaway uncle Shen Maotao, two seemingly unrelated people, met through online dating. This Henan takeaway uncle, named Shen Maotao, is from Puyang City, Henan Province. In the era when the takeaway industry was prevalent, he also chose to join this ranks. In the take-away industry, the customer is supreme, and after receiving the order, the take-away staff will deliver the food to the customer according to the specified route and within the specified time. However, many objective factors, such as the slow speed of merchants and traffic jams on the road, may lead to overtime work, so we often see the figure of takeout staff running on the road in order not to let customers complain and earn more money.

▲ takeaway brother sends photos.

Shen Maotao knows the rules of the takeaway industry. In order to deliver it in the fastest time, he was well received by customers. He remembered the route of the area very clearly, which was simply a walking map. At the same time, his riding speed is also very fast, and wind and sun are more common, in order to race against time. However, on this day, Shen Maotao was on his way to take delivery. The road is slippery and the speed is fast in rainy days. He accidentally had an accident and was taken to the hospital for medical treatment.

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On weekdays, Shen Maotao has long been accustomed to a busy life. Now let him lie still and not move anything. He felt really bored. Therefore, Shen Maotao can only solve problems through mobile phones. For most people, when they are bored, they will use their mobile phones to watch videos and brush live broadcasts. Shen Maotao is different. He loves learning very much. Even at rest, he thinks he should learn something and don't waste time.

▲ Shen Maotao and Marina took a group photo.

So Shen Maotao downloaded a lot of language software to learn English and other languages. However, while learning words, language pays more attention to communication in order to apply what it has learned. He also likes the social function of language software, and has made many friends from all corners of the country through this. One of them is a special friend. She comes from Ukraine and her name is Marina. The acquaintance of the two people was entirely due to a coincidence.

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On one occasion, Marina sent a message "Hello, China local tyrant" to Shen Maotao through the software, and Shen Maotao corrected her immediately. Then Marina apologized to him and said that she was joking, so the two ended this short chat, thinking that their relationship would only end there. Unexpectedly, because the number of people using this software dropped sharply, only Marina was left among Shen Maotao's friends, so they started frequent exchanges.

▲ Shen Maotao and Marina took a group photo.

It turns out that Marina is a nurse. She knew that Shen Maotao was injured and gave him more advice. At the same time, Shen Maotao also knew that Marina's English was poor and wanted to learn English well, so Shen Maotao told Marina that he could teach her English. Gradually, the feelings between the two people quickly warmed up. In a chat, Shen Maotao even mentioned going to Ukraine to see Marina. Originally, this was just a joke. I didn't expect Marina to take it seriously and ask Shen Maotao when to go.

▲ Street View of Ukrainian City

A word spoken is past recalling. If you think about what you said, you must do it. So at the end of 20 17, Shen Maotao arrived in Ukraine by plane, and the two netizens finally met. Shen Maotao fell in love with Marina the first time he met her, and soon they confirmed their relationship and decided to get married. Both parents disagreed at first, because they had only known each other for half a month. But seeing that their feelings are sweet and they can't bear to hit Yuanyang, they agreed to this marriage. Today, they live in the countryside after marriage. Even though it is inconvenient in a big city, Marina said that she likes this life very much and she is very happy.

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Compared with blind date, online dating is more mysterious and less embarrassing. For example, Shen Maotao and his wife met through the Internet, and the two sides communicated frankly. Finally, from online to offline, they found that real people can develop further as expected. But online dating is still risky after all, and everyone has different views on online dating. In reality, countless people are deceived because of online dating. Therefore, it is most important to be rational and protect yourself.