The “personality” senior sister

I was chatting with senior sister Yuan Li that day, and she said that she was a "sexual" person. I was very interested in this word and wanted to know more about this word and the person who said it. It has been nearly three months since I started thinking about writing this article. Why can’t I start writing this article?

During this period, my senior sister asked me if I had any ideas. I said, "I have ideas, but I feel that writing them down would be disrespectful to my senior sister." The senior sister said, "I feel you from your concerns. "My kindness and warmth, what are you worried about - do you think I am a perverted person or do you think I will definitely be right?" The senior sister first flirted with me, which made me put down my defensiveness and decided to start writing.

"Se" is a northern dialect, which means acting in a different way (especially uncomfortable or unpleasant). For example, "Can you stop eating meat all the time and eat some vegetables? You're such a pervert." Another example is: XXX is such a pervert. She likes to wear a hurdle vest with trousers.

The senior sister's personality is reflected in:

Inner independence

She seems to often be alone, which makes people feel a bit unsociable. If you observe her carefully, she is not aloof, amiable, and popular, but it seems that she keeps a little distance from everyone and does not deliberately "sociable". She is not completely alone, but she knows better what she wants, what kind of friends are more worthy of association, and what kind of circle is more suitable for herself.

Unique temperament

It has a unique temperament, like a lotus flower, which makes people feel cool and elegant. As Zhou Dunyi wrote in "The Theory of Love of Lotus", "It comes out of the mud but is not stained; when it washes through the clear ripples it is not demonic". She has her own ideas, her own preferences, and her own rhythm of life. In interpersonal interactions, most of the people who are attracted to her and approach her are because of her own charm, rather than her deliberate desire to please.

In-depth

Senior sister is always easy to write articles, and she can interpret some issues from different perspectives. Her articles are often put into some public accounts and give people a A bright feeling.

Quoting part of the content from the senior sister's article titled "Action Breakdown of the Movie "Good Will Hunting"":

This is how I understand it. It is an insult to ordinary people for geniuses to waste their talents. . When geniuses hang out with ordinary people, they will invisibly put a lot of pressure on ordinary people. This pressure may be like the feeling of having a bomb next to you that you don't know when it will explode: You are so good, you can use it anytime you want. It will be different from us, and it will be completely different from us at any time.

The final quarrel between Professor Shane and Professor Jero was particularly exciting, and it was also a wonderful display of Professor Shane's professional ability as a high-level mind hunter.

At the climax of the consultation, Professor Shane repeated "It's not your fault" over and over again. No matter how Will reacted, he insisted on repeating it over and over again, like a gentle persistence and a warm hug. , simple yet powerful, finally breaking Will's last defense. Will hugged him and cried loudly, and the hurt, darkness, and loneliness accumulated in the process of growing up were also released and dissolved.

Throughout the consultation process, we can clearly see the context of consultation: establishing a relationship of full trust, correctly handling resistance, boldly confronting each other, promoting the seeker’s expanded consciousness and self-exploration, good emotional support, and timely Self-exposure, calm down, steady the pace of consultation, follow the rhythm of the seeker instead of pulling him, wait patiently for the seeker's initiative after self-exploration, firmly believe in the seeker's own potential and his ability to solve his own problems , always aiming to help the seeker achieve self-growth, perfect personality, and finally end the relationship smoothly.

The film also clearly shows that psychological counseling is not only about help and problem solving for the seekers, but also about the counselors themselves receiving inspiration and growth. For example, Professor Shan En no longer avoided his own problems in the end, but chose to face and change them with action.

There are also many little plots that I particularly like, such as Professor Shane telling his friends the jokes Will told him. This seems to reflect that while Will is changing, Professor Shane is also being changed. Will quietly changed.

There are also friends of Will who, when scolding Will for wasting his talent, said that the happiest ten seconds of his day are when he expects no one to answer the door before knocking on Will's door. That seems to represent intimidation. Once you leave "this place", the Sword of Damocles finally falls, and you will feel at ease from now on.

Warm

What I usually see are senior sisters listening carefully in class, taking notes, and publishing articles after class; but the senior sister I saw at the end of junior training dinner was There is warmth and the sound is particularly soft, which is completely different from the cold appearance. The senior sister is very versatile and can sing all kinds of songs. She will sing along whenever someone invites her to do so. She really lives up to the saying "If you don't show your true self, you won't show your true self if you show your true self"!

Do you also like such a sexy senior sister?