Why are people becoming more and more selfish?

Why do people become more and more selfish? Many people I contact only believe in interests. They say that there are no eternal friends and enemies, only eternal interests.

With the gradual deepening of contact with society, more and more people find that many things are so disappointing.

However, I believe that only love and trust are eternal. The vanity and pain behind the interests are dozens of times greater.

Therefore, no matter when, we should stick to our own beliefs. Life is far more worth pondering than survival. As the most outstanding representative of negative groups, selfish people themselves combine the comprehensive characteristics of negative personality. But specifically, selfish people are also manifested in the following aspects:

1, self-centered. Selfish people only have themselves in their hearts. He never thinks of others. Even though he sometimes thinks of others verbally (which is similar to a hypocritical person), he will never make any concessions when it comes to personal interests.

2. greed. Under the influence of extreme individualism, selfish people's desires will expand infinitely, the most prominent performance is greed, greed for money, fame and fortune, and even haggle over every ounce.

3. cold. Selfish people have no feelings at all, even if they pretend to have feelings with you, they have a more greedy purpose. Therefore, such people have no enthusiasm for life, and their hearts have been melted into steel by matter. In their minds, there are no feelings between people, only interests, so they are used to replacing pure and kind feelings between people with cold interests.

4, stingy. Because of their extreme greed for interests, they have formed their own unique stingy personality characteristics. Not only in money, but also in feelings. You may mistakenly think that they are frugal or unsociable, but these are all appearances. They are selfish in nature, because they never spend a penny more for others, including themselves, nor do they pay more for their feelings, unless they think that they will get more benefits by giving their feelings, and only in this way will they be extremely reluctant to show their feelings, but the way they express their feelings is so artificial and pale.

5, sensitive. Selfish people pay too much attention to their own interests, which makes them very sensitive to external reactions, especially those involving or not involving themselves, because they are afraid that what they should or should not get will be taken advantage of by others, and their mentality is extremely fragile. In the long run, selfish people are more or less neurotic (which is similar to anxious people).

6. suspicious. Similar to jealous people, the suspicious nature of selfish people is perfectly displayed. In the shadow of extreme individualism, they doubt society, others and the world. They think that everyone in the world is calculating him, so he must be too lazy to calculate others. Only in this way can they win in the so-called selfish world they created.

7. withdrawn personality. Due to extreme selfishness, their personalities will become cold and distorted, so they can't have real friends. They don't have a bosom friend to help them solve their psychological difficulties. They have multiple negative personality characteristics, which leads to their personality becoming less and less integrated with their surroundings. At the same time, they are getting farther and farther away from others. After a long period of psychological alienation, their personalities become more and more withdrawn, and it is more and more difficult to communicate and communicate.