Strict vs. indulgent, Pi—five families, which one is similar to you?

? There is a recently popular TV series - Pi, in which there are 5 pairs of families. I will give my own opinions on the current situation of the five pairs of families.

In the play, Lin Miaomiao's family belongs to a well-off family. Her mother is a university physical education teacher and her father is a manager of a cultural company. Later, by accident, he became a funeral director. Her mother, Wang Shengnan, is a very strict mother. Even when she was young, Miaomiao had to remind her to go to the toilet several times a day. When we first saw this scene when the show first aired, we would have thought that Miaomiao must be very dull if she lives in such a family. However, Lin Miaomiao in the show is not. Instead, she is very lively and has a strong sense of responsibility.

? I was very confused about this. It wasn’t until I watched the subsequent plot that I understood that Miaomiao’s liveliness is inseparable from having a funny dad. Lin Dawei is the kind of man who looks submissive on the surface, but every time Wang Shengnan and Miaomiao have a heated argument, it is Lin Dawei who solves the problem, like going to a barbecue stall together after a quarrel; like later, Miaomiao's mother because of a The misunderstanding of Virgo's problem was so anxious that it was Lin Dawei who stepped forward to ask for clarification.

Therefore, I think that in a family, the existence of tiger mother and cat father is necessary, because there must always be one person to be the dogma and another person to be the godfather. This not only balances a family, but also teaches children a correct outlook on life.

Qian Sanyi was the top scorer in the high school entrance examination. My mother is a famous singer, gentle and elegant, but she seems to have no desires and desires. The only thing she cares about is her son. The only thing Pei Yin and Wang Shengnan have in common is that they revolve around their children and care about everything about their children, but Pei Yin's concern is a bit excessive. You can tell from giving Qian Sanyi a soup given by a certain master every night; and every day before going to school, when Qian Sanyi goes downstairs, he will greet Pei Yin who is standing by the window sill. He does this every day unshakably, giving people I feel that Pei Yin's desire for control is too strong.

? Qian Sanyi’s family, Pei Yin is actually very pitiful, living in two places, maintaining a husband and wife relationship in name only, and having to attend family meetings with her husband in name only from time to time, really It is deplorable. But fortunately, her efforts have cultivated an excellent son, which can be considered a great comfort.

? Jiang Tianhao’s family is a typical nouveau riche family. Both his parents made their fortune in business and their education level is not high. The good family background gave Jiang Tianhao a good learning environment and he has been studying in the best schools. go to school. Jiang Tianhao's studies were not affected by his parents' copper-smelling habits. Instead, he studied well and had a good personality. It can be seen from the fact that he was injured in order to protect Sanyi, who was always oppressing him; and later we saw Miaomiao secretly went to pay for the meal because she had no money; and we saw Miaomiao at the funeral. Dad became a disgraceful funeral director because he was afraid that Miaomiao would lose face, so he hid the matter. It can be seen from these points that Jiang Tianhao is a person with very upright views and a strong sense of justice.

Deng Xiaoqi’s family should be considered excellent, because she never knew what her mother did and was always very busy. Deng Xiaoqi may lack love because of family reasons. A child who longs for love. In the play, she has always been talking about a non-existent father, but her father has never shown up, but she can be heard talking about it every time. Why would she lie? In fact, this is a sign of strong self-esteem. In the play, her parents are supposed to be divorced, and she is afraid of being laughed at by her classmates, so she keeps spinning a lie.

And every time Deng Xiaoqi heard Miaomiao complain that her mother was too strict, she didn't notice that Deng Xiaoqi's eyes were full of envy, which was what she longed for but couldn't get. Love, so Deng Xiaoqi inside is jealous of Miaomiao.

? Therefore, Deng Xiaoqi’s family is an incomplete family, which is also a portrayal of many divorced families. Yes, I made money to raise a child, but I missed the most important childhood of the child and the best companionship.

? The last story is about Lin Miaomiao’s aunt’s family. The family of Wang Dingnan and Tang Yuanming is still harmonious and beautiful, but in the play Wang Dingnan quits his job, is suspicious, spends lavishly, is too lazy to eat, etc. question. And their relationship style is undoubtedly not leading to divorce step by step.

? I remember that what impressed me the most was when Wang Dingnan returned to his parents’ home, Tang Yuanming came with his children and begged Wang Dingnan to go back at the dinner table. Shengnan also asked Jiaojiao to persuade her mother, and Jiaojiao He replied indifferently, "She doesn't care" or something like that, and then the child's grandmother and aunt became silent, because they understood that their quarrel had seriously affected the child's body and mind.

No matter how life is, children are the continuation of a family, please treat them well; no matter what the parents are, please don’t let the quarrels between the two parties affect the children; no matter poor or rich, please don’t be stingy about the parents’ love for their children. Love, because missing it is a lifetime.

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