Don't let these four things stop you from realizing your dream.

Don't let these four things stop you from realizing your dream.

Life is full of hardships, and each of us has different paths to success and happiness. I'm not going to explore the meaning of life or anything like that. I'll let you think for yourself. Whether your dream is to join NASA, become famous or enjoy country life, there will always be some obstacles ahead. If you want to overcome the key factors of these obstacles, you must first find the things that hinder your progress, so that you can overcome them.

1, afraid of failure

From a very young age, we all seem to be afraid of failure, which prevents us from taking part in sports activities. As we grow up, this fear of failure will affect our pursuit of dreams and lose the courage to try new things. How do you know until you try?

Think about it. What's the worst that can happen? Sit down, calculate the risk and try! Don't be afraid of rejection, failure or mistake.

Everything you want is the other side of fear.

2. Listen to the voices of opposition

The little voice in your head tells you that you are not good enough. Listen to the advice of good friends and family. In the short term, these voices will make you unhappy and upset, and in the long term, they will erode your self-confidence.

3. Desire for perfection

I have important news for you. Life cannot always be perfect. So, don't force yourself to be perfect.

You will find 90% perfection and you will be very happy. I'm not saying that you shouldn't try your best to do one thing, but I hope you don't pursue perfection too much.

Don't let perfection be the enemy, which is what my boss always says. At that time, I often encountered difficulties, troubles and hardships.

Always pursuing perfection will affect your ability to achieve your goals and your happiness index.

4. Be troubled by the past

Everyone has a past that cannot be erased. Making mistakes and learning from them is the key to life. Don't let the past bother you. Just because the past is over doesn't mean it will happen again.

Be brave to pursue your dreams.

Three things I realized on the eve of divorce

Three things I realized on the eve of divorce

Text/iron eye

I felt something strange in my mouth when I was eating the other day. When I picked it with a toothpick, a wisdom tooth was brittle and fell off. At that time, I was very scared. I'm only in my thirties, and my teeth are broken. At that time, I only had regrets. If I go back for two years, I will brush my teeth and protect my teeth.

Teeth are very strong, and the dirt left in the mouth can be eroded by the moon, which can make teeth fall apart. Let's talk about feelings between people. The stain on the mind must be removed, otherwise it will only be as crisp as teeth over time.

As people say, life is full of contradictions. The reason why we are confused or have no solution to this life problem is only because we are not smart enough, read too few books and have low ability to use knowledge. My wife and I have made a mess of what should have been a beautiful life because we are as ignorant and willful as children.

I still have some feelings about separation.

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Family is a place to talk about affection rather than reason.

My wife and I have a daughter, a new parent, who always seems to be in a hurry in the face of sudden trivial matters of raising children. Washing diapers and making milk powder, day and night, lack of sleep can be tolerated.

What my wife can't stand is that my mother-in-law left all this behind and went back to the countryside because she was not used to city life and the friction and disputes between my husband and wife. Let this difficult relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law warm up, and let us argue, theorize and argue with each other. I tried to convince her to understand the old man, and she insisted that I fight with him. I am strongly aware that men and women think in opposite ways.

Until the child was nine months old, the dispute did not ease at all. The child crawled on the bed, and we sat on the edge of the bed, blushing and thick-necked. At this moment, the child got out of bed trembling, blocked his mother's mouth with a pink little hand, and reached out to me with the other hand, hooked my neck and babbled in his mouth, as if to stop us from quarreling. At that time, we were silent and our eyes were wet.

Children under one year old know how to make their parents love and make their parents harmonious. We adults, however, don't give in to each other in our rigid ideas and fight to the death.

Home is not a place for us to argue, nor is it a battlefield to distinguish right from wrong, because there is love and blood is thicker than water.

02

Family is a place where tolerance and responsibility are emphasized, not where defects are verified.

My wife doesn't have many shortcomings in my eyes. The only thing is her short temper and dry temper. To this end, I have always wanted her to realize this.

Once, she and I took a long-distance bus back to our hometown to visit our daughter. It's a long way and there are several cities in the middle. In order to make money, buses have to get off the expressway to pull a few individual passengers every time they go to a city, which is very time-consuming.

I know that my wife is eager for her daughter, and I am very unhappy to see the car get off the highway. At first, he complained to me that he wanted me to give advice to the driver, but I didn't say anything.

Later, when she got off the highway again, she couldn't stand it. She got up and quarreled with the driver. The driver explained that it was not cost-effective to pull a few people in the car and it didn't take much time to get down. She raised her voice and explicitly told the driver to complain. Irritated the driver, the driver pointed to the car's complaint phone and said, if you want to complain, complain and don't want to get on the bus. Things are almost impossible.

At that moment, I still didn't speak. Constantly confirm in my mind, look, this is her bad temper, a highly educated person growls in public, and her shortcomings are exposed in the carriage.

In the family, we are often more familiar with each other's shortcomings than their strengths. Since we are familiar with each other, we should not verify each other's mistakes, but tolerate each other and bear the shortcomings of each other's personality, so as to avoid contradictions and mistakes caused by defects and avoid letting outsiders see jokes. After all, no one is perfect, everyone has personality limitations.

Suppose in the incident, I comforted her at first, or asked the driver to find out the hidden rules of allowing passengers to get off at high speed, and things would not be like that. However, in family life, we often don't accept, reject or even constantly check each other's shortcomings, which can only enlarge the shortcomings and lead to worse relations.

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Family is a place to talk about growth, not a place to run amok.

People must do three things when they are alive, that is, live, work and study. And these three things are progressive in logic. First of all, from birth, we must constantly learn new skills. The purpose of study is to work better, and work is to live better. As the ultimate goal, life is also the most complicated and difficult. Most people will ignore the proportion of the three and confuse the order.

This is also my biggest failure. Since my wife and I formed a family, I clean myself up every day and then go to work. I have a harmonious relationship with my colleagues in the unit, I am positive in front of the leaders, I use my brains to solve problems in my work, I work hard, I never shirk, and I am very diligent. I feel comfortable with myself. I'm never afraid of being heavy.

But coming home from work is a typical laziness in the field. Take off your work clothes and throw them away at will. Lying on the sofa, playing mobile phone and watching TV, I don't ask anything at home, and advocate that home should be a place to relax.

There is really little thinking and planning about life outside of work. We have never talked about what hobbies we should cultivate in our spare time, planned the future goals of our family, discussed the education of our children and learned to live a good life. Go out to play together when you are happy, and quarrel to solve the problem when you are unhappy, so that your temper can do everything.

To me, putting the cart before the horse is completely arbitrary. It is an escape from life and a waste of life.

Work makes us progress and grow, but isn't that what family and life are like? Home is by no means a place for us to vent our emotions and be willful. More complicated and important than work. Here, we need to learn to care, understand family, take responsibility and be tolerant. After all, it needs operation, not brute force.

Life is a book, and we all need to learn and grow! There are always tears of regret when a failed marriage falls apart. Wife, I wish you happiness in the future!

About the author: Tie Yan, author of the simplified book. Sina Weibo/Blog: Iron Eye Owl, WeChat official account: Iron Eye (ID: tieyanowl).

When you want to give up, you need to do 6 things.

When you want to give up, you need to do 6 things.

1, ask yourself why.

As Simon Sinek said, why did it all start? Sometimes when we start a business, it's because of the idea that flashed through our minds, but in the end we forget what our original intention is. Work and feelings are the first to make people lose themselves and question their choices and behaviors. Maybe you can't remember the last time you felt happy, or maybe the place you yearn for in your mind is no longer colorful, but gradually becomes a black and white picture. Go back to the starting point and find the source of everything.

Step 2 learn to feel uneasy

Life is not easy, there are always so many difficulties and hardships waiting for us to overcome on the road of life. If you are mentally prepared in advance, it will be very difficult to accept things. There are not only good things in life, but you will feel much better. When you feel that your life is unchanging, learn to relax and remember your purpose. What is the purpose of your efforts? What is the meaning of your hard life?

3. Persistence is victory.

Winston Churchill said: If you want to make an important point, don't be wordy and don't be smart. Cut to the chase and explain your point again and again. The key to victory lies in persistence. In the process of starting a business, I want to give up many times. It is perseverance that supports me and accompanies me through the difficulties. Really understand and fully believe that persistence is victory and self-improvement.

4. Find someone to pursue your goals with.

You wake up in the morning and decide to quit smoking today. You made up your mind, but you didn't want to tell anyone, in case you wanted to have a cigarette after afternoon tea. Find a trustworthy friend to spy on yourself. Yes, it sounds terrible, but it can ensure that you are always reminded to keep your promise. Make sure your friends can urge you to keep your word.

Of course, there will always be some difficult moments in life, but you already know these. Whenever you want to give up because of difficulties, remind yourself that life is not smooth sailing. Accept the challenge of life, face the challenge, and then learn how to meet it.

Step 5 cheer up

We are always in fear from time to time. We are born perfect. But don't let yourself sit on the sofa with a bucket of ice cream and plunge into a soap opera. All you have to do is cheer yourself up! Think about what made you happy last time, and then make yourself happy! For me, that's music. I will turn up the volume and bang on my ipod. The fast disco concert will make me feel high.

6. I am proud of myself

Sometimes we forget to stop and enjoy the scenery along the way. We have done a lot, but we often forget to applaud our achievements and efforts. Be proud of your success. Review your progress every three months, even if it is a small progress you should be proud of.

The next time you want to give up, ask yourself whether you have done your best, and whether you have experienced three stages in the process of pursuing your goal: learning, happiness and pain. If not, wait until you have experienced it before considering giving up.

Famous sayings about realizing dreams

1. Dreams can come true as long as they persist. Aren't we living in a dream?

2. The dream is a tree that supports the shade for you; Dream is light, which melts the snow in winter; Dreams are snow, water that moistens the land; Dream is water, forming an endless sea.

3. A dream is a stone that knocks out the fire of a star; Dream is a fire, lighting the extinguished lamp; Dreams are lights that illuminate the road at night; Dreams are the way to lead you to the dawn; Dreams are light, illuminating dark streets.

4. Dreams are the extension and expansion of life; Dreams are the driving force of human progress; Dreams are the source of creation.

5, the dream is spring, pregnant with the hope of life; Dream is summer, with flowers of hope; The dream is autumn, and I have harvested the fruits of hope; Dream is winter, sowing the seeds of hope.

6. The dream is to raise a rope full of sails; Dreams are sails, driving the ship of hope; Dream is a ship, drifting in the ideal sea; Dream is the sea, holding up the brilliant sun; Dreams are the sun, illuminating the way forward.

7. Embrace your dreams. With the guidance of your dreams, you can certainly overcome yourself. Under the guidance of dreams, keep moving forward and surpass yourself. You are full of hope and confidence in the future. It is a mountain in our hearts, which keeps us climbing high. It allows us to look up at any moment and see our hope.

8, a person, if there is no dream, there is no goal, no motivation to move forward. It's like living at the bottom of a canyon, spending time in the dark, suffering in helplessness and struggling in despair.

9. The road to success is full of hardships. It's a dream that tells us to get up quickly when we fall. It's a dream, telling us to go forward when it comes to wind and rain; This is a dream that tells us never to give up when we fail. Dreams are torches in the dark, and starlight in the dark gives us light and hope.

10. If you have a dream, you will be great. Having a dream is half the battle. Dreams are the driving force for progress. Because of dreams, mountains are alive and forests have birds. Because water has dreams, it has vitality, fish and waves; Because people have dreams, they have happiness, relatives and friends.

1 1. Life with dreams is not lonely. In any case, as long as you have a dream in your heart, you won't lose your way. When I am alone, my heart will cross the ocean of time and space, soar in the vast sky, walk between the blue sky and white clouds, cherish every place I pass by and love every life I meet.

12, the dream is like a breeze, which wakes up your sleepy brain when you are confused and raises strong sails for your sailboat; Dreams are like fire, which gives you infinite warmth when you are helpless and ignites the fire of hope; Dream is a key, if you grasp it carefully, you can open the door to success; Dream is a bright lamp, which can illuminate the road to success if you light it with your heart; Dreams are the most loyal friends. As long as you are careful, you can understand the secret of success.

13. Everyone has a dream. What is a dream? Dreams are the most wonderful thing. It is more beautiful than a rainbow, deeper than the sea and wider than the sky. It has fantastic beauty, purity and sweetness, and it is the noblest pure land in everyone's heart. No matter what your dream is, with a dream, you will have the motivation to move forward, full of enthusiasm and hope, and you will strive to pursue her and make your life more meaningful.

14. If we can treat life like children and don't set limits on our lives, then dreams will never stop at dreams. When I was a child, I dreamed of infinite possibilities. When I grew up, I was limited everywhere. It must be the environment. Sometimes, it is because I lack imagination. If you think you can, then you can; If you think you can't, then you can't. Find a time to go to a place where no one or the outside world will disturb you, and calm down and think. Try to enlarge your inner world and pattern and don't set limits for yourself. Just like going back to childhood, let your inner world expand infinitely. To feel the joy from the heart, it is important to enjoy the process of dreaming and not take dreaming as a job. It should be full of excitement and joy, and take us through a better, happier and more fulfilling life journey. Make your dream visible and turn it into a concrete and feasible goal.

15, many people will say: But these so-called dreams are just whimsy, improvisation and improvisation. Just like the wish we made when we saw a meteor in the night sky. These wishes may be just ideas, good ideas and daydreams, but these daydreams may also come true in real life. Seize the opportunity, dare to build dreams and make them come true.

16, we will finally find that nothing stands in the way of realizing our dreams. I just have some fantasies in my heart. The only thing I can do at this time is to move it myself. Successful people who have made achievements in various fields are great dreamers. They dream of the future in the fire in winter and in the rain and fog on cloudy days. Some people let their dreams disappear quietly, and some people carefully cultivate and maintain them until they get through the difficulties and bring sunshine and light. It is worth celebrating that sunshine and light always come to those who truly believe that their dreams will come true and work hard.

17. There are many respectable and lovely street people around us. In order to become a baker, young people must be busy from five in the morning to twelve at night. In order to become a white-collar elite, office workers who have to study English hard are brave people who work hard to realize their dreams. Dreams are a person's aura. When people see his efforts to realize his dream, they have to share their expectations with him with respect and wish his dream come true.

18, in the process of realizing your dream, no one can really embarrass you except yourself. People with dreams will be stronger, braver and more powerful than those without dreams. We may encounter setbacks in everything we do. But those who work hard to realize their dreams have no time to be sad about setbacks. They will only be more frustrated and brave, find useful experience from setbacks and increase their power to realize their dreams. The process of realizing dreams seems difficult, but people who are in it can always enjoy it.

19. The so-called dream is not a picture that you think of only when you dream occasionally. It's an idea that you really expect to come true. The first biggest stone that hinders dreams is: don't believe in dreams. If it was impossible from the beginning! How can I be so lucky? I'm afraid it is wishful thinking! These negative thoughts are tantamount to crushing yourself before you officially set foot on the road of dreams. What earth-shattering difficulties are actually just self-denial that exists in one's heart.

20. Dreams can be said to be the greatest wealth in life. A brave dreamer opened many happy accounts in advance in his life bank. Only those who work hard to realize their dreams can fill these accounts with spiritual funds. No one can stop a man who is determined to realize his dream. Unless, he gave up first. Those who surrender at the first stone that blocks their dreams will never realize their dreams. On the way to your dream, you will always meet a stone that will hinder your progress. You must try to remove it. These stones that will stand in the way of dreams are not roadblocks set by others, but difficulties of self-limitation.

2 1, I once heard a friend say: I really want to spend another six years to finish my degree in college, but I will be forty years old in six years! Come to think of it, if he didn't study for this degree, he would still be forty years old six years later. If we don't weave dreams, set goals and make plans, what will we be like in five years or ten years? In fact, success and frustration are both elements of life.

22. When you have a dream, write it down immediately and make an operational action strategy for it. As long as the goal is determined, tell yourself never to give up, never stop, and face any setbacks and challenges bravely. From dream to goal, and then from goal to plan, we should make good plans in our daily life, so as to realize our dreams.

23. "Only by embracing dreams can we see that the future mankind is great because of dreams. The real dream is our expectation of life. Dreams are the way we want to live, not what we want to have. The dream is what we want to be, not the title we want to hang on the facade. Dreams are our mentality, not external gorgeous labels. Dreams are the patterns and visions that we have developed personally, not the dazzling seals on our passports. Practice is the most important action force to realize dreams. "

24. Dreams, like a gust of wind, blow into the future; Dreams, like a ship, float into the distance; Dreams are like a lamp, illuminating tomorrow.

25. Dreams are ropes, full of sails. Dreams are sails, propelling the ship of hope. Dreams are boats, floating on the ideal sea. The dream is the sea, holding up the bright sun. Dreams are the sun, illuminating the way forward.

26. Dreams are a kind of persistence that is not obvious; It is a kind of perseverance that is not afraid of wind and rain; It is a kind of loyalty that does not seek fame or profit.

27, the dream is the green of spring, delicate and fragile and full of new ideas; Dreams are the water of life, giving people hope to moisten things silently; Dreams are the wind on the horizon, which comes and goes in a hurry; Dreams are dead leaves that nourish trees and usher in new life.

28. I have a dream that all deserts will become oases, and there will be no more overwhelming sandstorms covering our eyes; I have a dream that every river is crystal clear, and there will be no dirty bubbles, so that every fish can play happily; I have a dream that every sky is as blue as washing, no longer smeared by rolling smoke, so that every bird can fly freely; I have a dream that there will be no more mountains of garbage in every corner of the city, so that every child can grow up healthily on the grass under the green trees.

29. Dreams make you smile and observe life, and dreams make you stubbornly resist fate; Dreams make you forget your early white hair; Dreams make you white and naive.

30. A dream is an unbeaten spring flower. Dreams are flowing springs. Dreams are majestic peaks, and dreams are tenacious petrels. Dream is a vast and boundless sea. Dream is a winding path. Dreams are empty streets in the sky.

3 1, the dream is an alarm clock, breaking your golden dream; Dreams are soap, washing away your selfishness. Dreams are both harvest and sacrifice.

32. Dreams are water, watering the seedlings of life; Dreams are seedlings, which grow the tree of life; Dreams are trees that bloom in flower of life; Dreams are flowers that bear the fruits of life!

33. The building stands tall because it has strong pillars, and ideals and beliefs are the pillars of the building of life; Ships sail through the waves because there is a compass to point out the direction, and ideals and beliefs are the compass of life ships; The train goes to Wan Li Road because there are rails to guide it, and ideals and beliefs are the rails on the train of life.

34. What is a dream? It is a gorgeous, beautiful and unbeaten spring flower. What is the dream? This is a spring, a flowing spring. What is the dream? This is a high and dangerous mountain. What is the dream? This is a petrel. What is the dream? It's a crescent moon, it's a defect.

35, the original always said that the gap between dreams and reality. Now I know that I am a person without dreams. I always say that my heart hurts. Now my heart is really painful, only to find that there is no reason. I don't like idioms very much, and I don't know how to compare sentences. The situation is pressing now. Also known as sensitive and kind people.

36. Without dreams, life is like a desert, lifeless; Without dreams, life is like night, without light; Without dreams, life is like a maze, with no direction.

37. Dreams are the wings that take you soaring in the sky. Dreams are the goal of struggle, taking you forward all the time. In my dream, I put it in a kite and made it fly very high.

38. if you don't know the goods, you will suffer for half your life; If you don't know anyone, you will suffer for life.

39. Knowledge is not as good as knowledge, knowledge is not as good as doing things, and doing things is not as good as being a man.

40. Place a bet and win once; Follow the right person and win a lifetime.

4 1, how many talented losers are there in the world, and how many highly educated unemployed people are there in the world-because of wrong choices.

42. Enterprises can control efforts and investments, but not the results. Find a way out when you are proud, and there will be a way out when you are frustrated. BMW has a spare tire. What about your life?

43. What you saw and heard changed your life, and you unconsciously ruined it.

I don't know which comes first, the accident or tomorrow. No crisis is the biggest crisis, and satisfying the status quo is the biggest trap.

45. The boss can only give one position, not a future. No matter how big the stage is, people are cold when they walk.

A collection of true words to realize your dreams

1. Avoid negative sources, people, things and habits.

2. Believe in yourself.

Consider this problem from all angles.

4. Perseverance and perseverance

Enjoy today's life, yesterday has passed, and tomorrow will never come.

6. Family and friends are wealth.

7. Pay more money than you originally planned.

8. Stick to your dreams.

9. Ignore those who want to dissuade you.

10, let go.

1 1, keep up the good work. No matter how difficult it seems, it will always become easy.

12 First of all, cherish yourself.

13, take the initiative.

14. Never lie, cheat or steal.

15, do whatever you want.

16, open your eyes and look at things truthfully.

17 Practice makes perfect.

8. People who give up halfway will never win, and winners will never give up halfway.

19, always punctual.

20. Read, study and learn all the important things in life.

2 1, take control of your own destiny.

22, know yourself to better understand others.

23. Make things concrete.

24. The most important thing is to get it.

25. Redouble your efforts.

You are unique in God's creation, and nothing can replace you.

27. Look at the target and strive for it.

I'm only worried about one thing. I'm afraid I don't deserve my pain.

I'm only worried about one thing. I'm afraid I don't deserve my pain.

1, our lives are exhausted by trivial things. Our lives are distorted by details. ) ── Walden by henry david thoreau.

I like people more than principles, and people without principles more than everything. -Oscar Wilde (Oscar zsche)

80. Principle is another name for prejudice. Principle is another name for judgment. ) ── Mark Twain

8 1. Human life cannot be measured by the length of time. When the heart is full of love, that moment is eternity. -Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche

98. The light that makes us invisible is dark to us. Genius is bright only when we open our eyes and wake up. There are still many days before dawn. The sun is just a morning star. -Walden by henry david thoreau.

99. I'm only worried about one thing. I'm afraid I don't deserve my pain. -Russian novelist Dostoevsky

100, how many secrets does a person need to hide to spend his life skillfully? This Buddha-like plateau is a paradise in three steps and two steps, but there are still so many people who are preoccupied and unable to walk. Tsangyang Gyatso

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