On blind date, the woman brought three or four girlfriends. Why?

The first situation is more common. Many women take their girlfriends on blind dates. From the beginning, they didn't want to get along with you. They just want to take advantage of the blind date. When looking for a restaurant to eat, they usually choose an expensive place, and they will not ask for your advice and take care of the place when ordering food. They acquiesce that you will pay the bill, so they generally don't mention it.

People who really want to know you will have a good chat with you at dinner, while women who just want to take part in accidental amusement will not care about you at all. They just take pictures and make friends, as if you were just an emotionless payment machine. Just like the blind date girl that Liu Ge met mentioned above, she took three girlfriends on a blind date, not only didn't want to pay the bill, but also just wanted to make money, whether she was sincere or not.

The second is to satisfy my vanity and let my girl friends know that there are many people chasing me.

There is another kind of woman who is vain. Whenever a man chases her, she can't wait to tell the world. Taking a girlfriend on a blind date is just to show off.

In Zhang Ailing's Love in a Fallen City, Bai Liusu, the heroine, accompanied her sister on a blind date. As a result, the other party took a fancy to herself rather than her sister. Instead of feeling guilty, she was complacent. Because this means that her charm has been affirmed, Zhang Ailing wrote: "No matter how good a woman is, if she can't get the love of the opposite sex, she can't get the respect of the same sex." In her view, a large part of a woman's vanity comes from comparison. The more you love your man, the more proud you are.

Third, if you want to develop for a long time, taking a girlfriend will only be for testing.

The third situation is relatively rare, but once encountered, we should cherish it. Because I am serious, I hope my girlfriend will come to see you to ensure happiness in the future. But this usually happens when two people already have a certain emotional foundation and know each other well. She also brought her best friend to have dinner with you, just to make sure that your character is trustworthy.

To judge whether she has this intention, we can see whether she will propose AA system when paying the bill, or if there are too many, she should pay the bill, depending on you. If so, it shows that their intention is not to earn your money and gain your advantage, but to really get to know you and establish a long-term relationship with you.

Sincerity is the foundation of interpersonal communication. No matter how well we know each other, it's worth waiting for. If you know someone you like through blind date, please cherish it. It doesn't matter how you know each other, but true love and getting along are the most important.