I fell in love with a girl and told her that after dating for a period of time, she said that she had been trying to like me, but she couldn't find a reason to like me. What should I do?

On the whole, there is still hope.

At least, the other party will not refuse immediately and give yourself a chance to try to have sex.

The problem now may be you, the kind that makes the other person bored.

As you said, you have nothing to say when you speak. The atmosphere of silence is awkward and difficult. Over time, the other party is afraid that this kind of getting along is a kind of suffering and doesn't want to come out again.

The other party also said that I can't feel your heart. Maybe it's because of your excessive silence. Always keep everything in your heart and never show it. The other party doesn't know and can't perceive.

In fact, this is a very common mentality of men, always thinking that it is enough to pay attention to each other silently. But women and girls are not like this. Why do women like to hear men say "I love you"? In addition to the satisfaction of vanity, there is also a sense of realism in loving each other. I will say the same thing to my husband, insisting that he always intercedes and always loves me. But he is also that kind of temperament, deep-rooted and not good at expression, which makes people angry. So sometimes there will always be contradictions and disputes. Although I know he is in love, a woman's heart is like that, and she will never get tired of men saying "I love you" many times!

There is a saying that is right. Don't just think that the other person knows it just because of his own intention. How can anyone know if you don't tell me? Just like other people's worries, how can you know if you don't tell them! A very simple truth.

"Love must be said and done so that the other person can feel it!" Many times women will leave men, not because they don't love each other, but because men don't know how to love women. So always self-defeating, the other party is extremely sad and disappointed to leave! It is a sad fact that men and women all over the world can't get rid of it. The natural temperament gap between men and women makes girls feel delicate and eager to perceive and listen, while boys are not good at expressing their feelings. Buried in their hearts for a long time, the two sides will accumulate a generation gap, which will be difficult to bridge by then.

I feel that in this case, as long as you work hard to improve, it is very promising! A woman with words can't refuse a man's sweet words, but those sweet and warm words always make girls irresistible. But here, more accurately, it is "sweet talk." There is a difference between the two. The former is to win people's favor with lies and hypocritical words, while the latter is to stimulate people's enthusiasm and warmth with warm and touching words. Just like, some people in life are caring and attentive, and care about greetings. Don't ignore work and life because of its busyness. Always keep love hot and cool. I have a friend who is doing very well. She sends messages from time to time to say hello to her girlfriend and say something about her. In his words, it will make the other person feel warm! Indeed, when we are separated, when we are tired of each other's life, it may be that an encouragement and concern between us will be eliminated and encouraged. However, it is always difficult for us to do it, and it is replaced by various practical reasons.

What I want to say is that I might as well try to care more about her. Usually call and send messages to let her know that you have been thinking. Being noticed is a very happy thing! So is being missed. Prove your position and weight in each other's minds. If you do nothing, how can the other person feel your love? Love is not buried in the bottom of my heart, but expressed in words and actions.

You must change your habits, at least be' casual and natural' when you are with your lover, and don't be so shy. There are no outsiders at this time, just two people's space. You can complain about missing lovesickness. In this way, the other person can feel your love.

There is also, when shopping together. She can give some advice for reference at the right time, or buy what she likes at will. Just talk about things far from home and enliven the atmosphere. Don't care too much. It is better to deliberately' relax'. It's often psychological. Looking back, I'm afraid I said something wrong and I don't like it. The result is a vicious circle, not much better.

Look at you now. You still have a chance. I hope to grasp it well and try to grasp it! It's rare to meet someone you love deeply. Don't miss it. For love, more "courage, ambition, perseverance, determination and confidence" will surely succeed. It's fate! !

Say good wishes ~ ~ ~