Tell jokes that others are not short of money.

People can't avoid dealing with money all their lives.

It is not an exaggeration to say that money is a mirror of human nature, because it reflects all kinds of things in the world.

Some people don't talk about money for fear that others will feel worldly.

Some people, in order to covet small profits, choose to lose their integrity and embark on the road of no return.

A person's attitude towards money hides his character.

Rich people are not too bad in character.

Colleagues are very sad these days, and only when they ask, do they know that it is all about money.

My colleague's daughter will go to primary school next year. In order to give her better study conditions, the couple decided to change to a school district.

They still have some savings on hand, plus the money to sell the old house, but there is still a gap.

Who knows, those who call each other brothers at ordinary times are prevaricated at this time, or simply don't answer the phone.

Colleagues are very depressed: "I wouldn't talk if I wasn't in a hurry to use money, and according to our husband and wife's income, I am definitely able to pay back the money, alas."

Unexpectedly, a few days later, my colleague went out and came back happily to say that things were done.

It turned out that after hearing about his predicament, a friend took the initiative to call him "if necessary, let me know how much you can help", and even transferred the money to him without even making a loan.

Colleagues are also very grateful, and quickly wrote a debit note, including interest, and personally sent it to a friend's house.

Afterwards, he sighed: You don't know who you can really make friends with for life until you are short of money once in your life.

I have heard a saying: "Lending money is an emotion, and taking it back is the enemy."

So many people say, don't lend money to others unless you have to.

Indeed, no matter who you are, you can't stand the risk of emotional turmoil.

On the other hand, if a person is willing to lend you money when you are down and out, then this person must be a true friend.

Because many times, whether you borrow it or not, you may face emotional harm.

A true friend not only believes that you will return the money to him, but also prepares to get it back.

He values your relationship more than money, which is the real value.

I often see people asking questions online:

It is only natural to pay back debts, but I don't know when it will become a grandson to borrow money and a grandfather to pay back.

Therefore, from the way of paying back money, it is easy to see a person's personality.

Neighbor Lao Gao has been living in poverty for years. His wife had an operation in her early years and could not do heavy work. The child is still at school and the burden of family life is on him.

But even so, when things happen, people are still willing to lend him money.

For no other reason, Lao Gao is a grateful person.

An appointment never defaults to a date. Even if it can't be returned in time, there must be an explanation.

I remember one time, Lao Gao failed to pay back the money in time because the company was in arrears with wages. That night, he took some fruit to apologize.

A few days later, I received my salary and delivered it to my door in person.

On weekdays, I am also very grateful to those who have helped me. Often help clean the corridor and run errands.

Such a trustworthy person, sometimes even if he doesn't talk, everyone will take the initiative to lend it to him.

It is said that borrowing money depends on the heart and paying back the money depends on the character.

In this life, people will inevitably meet the need to talk to others, but if they borrow money, it is not an embarrassing thing to take the initiative to pay it back.

It is much better than those who want to get married for various reasons and need money badly, and have no money to pay back their wages for a few days.

Borrowing and paying back is the principle and bottom line that everyone should always keep in mind.

Those who take the initiative to pay back the money on time should also know how to be grateful and keep their promises.

In life, we often see people like this:

The former is still complacent about his little moves, but after a long time, he will find that everything around him is scattered.

In the latter, there are more and more real friends around, and the road is getting smoother and smoother.

When I just graduated, I went to Beijing with several classmates to find a job. At that time, everyone's salary was very low. Occasionally, when I get paid at the end of the month, I go to a small restaurant outside to order some dishes.

Classmate W is always scrambling to pay the bill, and then smiles and says it's your treat next time, but it's still the same every time.

Later, due to career reasons, we went our separate ways. W and I are not far away, and we can get together occasionally.

But every time I want to go to the counter to pay the bill secretly, I find that he is still in the habit of paying the bill quietly.

I felt a little uncomfortable and joked with him: "It's not that I am young, so I won't have money. How can I pay the bill? "

Then he replied, they are all friends, and it makes no difference who pays the bill.

Later, W got more and more help and his career became better and better.

Looking back on this relationship, W's success was not accidental, but his accumulated good popularity, which won him good luck.

Money may not be the only criterion for testing a relationship, but it can measure the depth of mutual feelings.

After all, nobody is stupid.

People who are rushing to pay the bill may not be the easiest economically, but they are the most affectionate.

They don't care about gains and losses, and are willing to pay for those who are worth paying.

To some extent, this kind of friend is much more reliable than pretending to go to the bathroom when paying the bill.

Such people can reap their own good future no matter what they do.

In fact, whether in family, friendship or love, the closer the relationship, the more secretive everyone is about money.

I'm afraid I look worldly, and I'm afraid that the other person will show his desire for money and ruin my dream of hard work.

But in fact, good feelings not only dare to talk about money, but also stand the test of money.

In the TV series "The Joy of Life", Versace played by Guo Qilin is a small rich man with rich second generation.

When his father didn't let him do business, he honestly didn't understand the crooked brain. Finally, he won all his father's money through a game of Pai Jiu and showed his father his talent for making money.

When you open a bookstore with your brother Fan Xian, don't forget to make the cost, profit and share clear first, which is refreshing and transparent.

Emotionally, too, with rich people, the relationship can be stable and long-lasting.

Anita Yuen and Csillam are recognized as model couples in the entertainment circle. The secret of their marriage is to talk boldly about money.

Anita Yuen likes to buy expensive bags. Csillam never blames him, but he supports his wife anyway.

In a program, the host interviewed Csillam and asked, "What are you most worried about if you leave before your wife?"

He said without hesitation, "I'm afraid my wife doesn't have enough money."

On another occasion, Csillam asked Anita Yuen, "What do you have to say to me?"

Without hesitation, she said, "Give me all your money."

Many people think that stars are not short of money, but not everyone dares to speak.

Behind the generous talk about money, see a person clearly and recognize a relationship.

Only those who don't hide can be trusted and entrusted for life.

In fact, money itself has no meaning.

The difference is that everyone wants to gain different things from it, which gives it different meanings.

As the saying goes, money is character.

Money is the embodiment of personality to a great extent, and it also determines the height of a person's life to a certain extent.

As for those who cry all day, don't pay back the money, and are greedy for small profits, try to stay away as far as possible.

Author | Xiao Sa

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