When do you think love is a joke?

People are all kinds. If you treat love as a joke, you can only get jokes! Be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, everything is carefully calculated in secret, and you refuse to pay, but also exchange for equal value. Without a willing heart, how can you harvest love? Maybe someone failed you, but did you do what you had to do? None of them are each other? Since you want to have a true love, first of all, you should be willing to pay, have a heart without regrets, and treat your feelings sincerely, even if you fail, it is voluntary! In real life, there is a man who treats women very frivolous. I have a nasty idea that everyone else is realistic and snobbish. How can I get true love! To put it bluntly, you have to understand and appreciate the beauty of love in order to get love!