What type of person is likely to become a joke in the eyes of others?

1. Use anger to express powerlessness

The market conditions in a certain city are good, and some friends in my circle of friends got money. There is a friend who is open-minded and straightforward, but because he is too straightforward, sometimes he does things without considering the impact. Then this friend also made some money. He sent a message in the circle of friends. The content of the message was a picture. In the picture, I posted my harvest, and then added a line of text at the bottom: Friends who like it, I will share some money with you if you like it, thank you everyone!

Because this person is in one of my groups, and the group members are all friends with each other, so whoever likes it and who doesn’t like it, because everyone can see the relationship between friends, the majority of people like it and not like it. There are very few people who like it, and those who like it don’t say much. After all, they are all in the same circle, and some things are self-evident. Those who didn’t like it, like me, also congratulated this friend in the group. Only one person went against everyone. He publicly attacked the person who shared the money in the group and said a lot of unpleasant things. Although he did not directly scold the other person, he used a sinister tone, which directly or indirectly disgusted him. He also disgusted everyone who liked it, even those who didn't like it.

The friend who wanted to share the money didn’t say anything. He should share the money, because everyone knows this person very well. Weird and angry: After all, they did make money.

At the same time, everyone also understands why that person is so weird, because he lost money, lost money, lost money, lost money, and everyone can understand the imbalance in mentality. However, as This person's weirdness gradually intensified, and everyone began to show obvious disgust. Finally, the group leader kicked this person, and the group became quiet. Friends who sent money continued to send money, and those who chatted continued to chat, as if what they had just said It's like nothing happened.

In fact, in our lives, this kind of people are the most pathetic. Winning or losing in life is not important. What is important is how to face winning or losing. There are some things that everyone does not say. It doesn't mean that everyone doesn't understand in their hearts. Whether they win or lose, they will be gradually forgotten by everyone over time. But at the moment of winning or losing, everyone will often remember very clearly who has become what kind of person: good things never go out, even if When you go out, what you remember is not the things, but the impressions. Bad things spread thousands of miles, and every step within a thousand miles is absurd.

2. The wrong flattery

My friend told me a joke. Although after listening to it, I couldn’t feel the laughter, but I did feel a trace of sadness. The joke is that in their company group, the boss posted a picture. The content is nothing new. It just wants employees to work more: "You must first have the ability to earn 100,000 yuan before you can earn 100,000 yuan a month." ?After this picture was posted, no one said anything. About three to five minutes passed, and suddenly someone liked the boss who posted the picture. Immediately afterwards, he praised the boss and the company. The words of praise came one after another, and there was a strong smell of flattery in the embarrassment. Maybe the boss also felt that the smell was too bad, so he personally stopped the other party's "excretion": Okay, don't say it, I know it in my heart Just do it. Different people have different views on this kind of behavior of flattering the boss. Some people think it is extremely hypocritical, and some people think it is the only way to be promoted. Although different people have different views on this kind of incident, things must be reversed in the extreme. The truth, I believe, can be said to be everyone's common sense: flattery may be a very necessary communicative behavior in the eyes of some people, but no matter what you do, you must have a degree.