Chatting too seriously, not talking much. What if you can't joke? I can't talk to my friends! Watching others chat in full swing, and I can only watch! think

First of all, don't be too deliberately involved in other people's chat. You can listen to their chat first. If you are interested in a certain field, you can naturally talk about it. If you are not interested in a certain field, don't have nothing to say in order to join. If you are familiar with it, you can complain a little and say, "Can you say something that others can understand?" If you are not familiar with it, you can pass a cigarette to intervene and transfer to what you can say.