Why doesn't the woman want a bride price, but she is looked down upon by her husband's family after marriage?

Because this kind of no bride price may give the husband's family a feeling that you are upside down. After all, the bride price is a custom, even if you want less bride price, don't want it at all! Imagine that girls look for this male friend for love, not for bride price money, but they are considered worthless by their families. It would be better for this type of girl to find a reasonable husband, but if her husband is backward in thinking, she often thinks that the girl's behavior is frivolous, and even if she is unwilling to give a bride price, it is easy to be looked down upon by others.

As for the bride price, I think many families hate it. It can be said that the bride price does not know how much love has been destroyed. The bride price is the bitterness of the bride and groom. Don't let the bride price be looked down upon by her husband's family. The more bride price, the more respected by her husband's family. According to my observation, it seems that many people quite support this view. There seems to be such a habit in the countryside, that is, they can't get the bride price of their daughters-in-law, and then they cast envious eyes. Don't marry the countryside as a bride price, so there will be such rumors. Whose child really has her own, she found a daughter-in-law without asking for a bride price.

Therefore, in my opinion, no matter how much a woman loves her boyfriend, it is absolutely impossible not to pay the bride price. The amount of bride price money can be integrated according to the local customs of the man and his own local customs of bride price money. It is best to take a middle value, neither too high nor too low. Otherwise, it may make her husband's family uncomfortable. In addition, when the woman asks for bride price money, she should find out whether she can get along with her future husband's family in the process, and don't wait until she gets married to find out that she can't get along well with her husband's family. Of course, if a woman and her future husband are more loving and don't care about getting along with her husband, it is best not to get too close to her husband after marriage, otherwise it will easily lead to contradictions.

To tell the truth, the bride price before marriage is a custom handed down from ancient times, and it is a way for men and women to test each other before marriage, so we should take it seriously. If a woman thinks that love is above everything else, then the way to avoid conflicts with her husband's family after marriage is to stay away from it and not to confront it. As for the husband's family, it doesn't matter whether you look at it or not. After all, living a good life is the most important thing.