Married for 4 1 year, she never shared a room. Juan, the general manager, said that she was a relic of Lu Xun. Does she deserve sympathy?

"You always said that Lu Xun's relics should be preserved and preserved! I am also a relic of Lu Xun, you have to save me! " Zhu An, who is in her sixties, is crying loudly to the people around her, asking her not to sell Lu Xun's works. Married for 4 1 year, no one has ever cared whether she is uncomfortable or happy. Why do so many people object to selling several books that they have legally inherited now?

This is what Zhu An said when he was hungry and cold and had not had enough to eat for many days. After he wanted to promise the publishing house to sell some of her husband's posthumous works, he was stopped from selling books by Lu Xun's friends who heard the news. She has always claimed to be Lu Xun's relic, belonging to Lu Xun's personal belongings, but after Lu Xun's death, she was neglected and almost starved to death. But just trying to get enough food and clothing has become the target of public criticism.

Zhu An felt wronged, but she never thought, how did this injustice come about? Many people accuse Lu Xun of being too half-hearted to himself, while educating everyone how to be a man with conscience and morality, while cheating on his wife and ignoring him as an invisible man. However, no one has ever considered it from another angle. Is it really all Mr. Lu Xun's fault that Juan did this? Are they really persecuted under the remnants of feudal thought?

In the shadow's view, only the poor must have something hateful. As early as a few years before Lu Xun got engaged to Zhu An, Lu Xun was dissatisfied with his mother's interference in his marriage, but out of filial piety, he had no choice but to accept this airborne marriage that was about to become a reality. But after all, he is a figure of the new era. Mr. Lu Xun is not blindly following. He also made several demands on his future wife. He hopes that his wife can try and change as much as possible before getting married, so that they can get along happily.

In fact, the two conditions proposed by Lu Xun at that time were somewhat harsh in the social background at that time, but Zhu An could make his own decisions. If Juan really wants to marry him and stay with him all his life, what's the big deal if he makes such a change that doesn't hurt himself? I just wish she would stop tying her feet. I just hope she can read some words and books. Is it too much to ask?

Actually, it's not much. Even if parents can't accept it, Zhu An, as a person with normal behavior ability, can make changes in private. After all, my future husband is a great person, and he has accepted different ideas and cultures from her. Since I want to marry him, who will try their best to find the same language as the other person and find a way to talk to her husband?

What's more, Mr. Lu Xun has warned that as long as Zhu An made a slight change at that time, their marriage may not become what it looked like later! Zhu An refused such a request, completely bent on her own way, and just wanted to be an ordinary woman without talent and virtue. Who can blame this?

But it happened that on the wedding day, Zhu An wore a pair of shoes one inch bigger to please Lu Xun and wanted him to know that she was a woman with new ideas. The idea is good, but I would rather please each other by cheating than really make a change.

The funniest thing is that such a poor trick was ruined by herself on the spot. Shoes a few sizes too big can't hold her feet firmly at all. When she got off the sedan chair, she fell off the sedan chair directly, which made everyone present see a joke. This made Lu Xun even more unhappy. Women have many ideas, but they don't have to go the right way.

Besides, after marriage, Lu Xun was tricked back from Japan by his mother on the grounds of serious illness to get married. Originally, he could just turn around and leave when he knew the truth, which made his mother very angry. He also thought that if an engaged woman was mercilessly abandoned by him, it seemed to hurt others, so he choked back his displeasure and quietly married Zhu An.

However, on their wedding night, they didn't get married. Later, Lu Xun moved to sleep with his mother and never touched Zhu An again. Three days later, I went directly to Japan to study abroad, and I haven't come home for several years. During this period, Lu Xun told Zhu An that her life could be free at any time, and she could divorce at any time if she wanted, and she would be well settled.

However, Zhu An told her that if she married Zhou's family, she would be born Zhou's family and die Zhou's ghost. She will always be the daughter-in-law of her mother-in-law and the wife of Lu Xun, and will never remarry. Well, since you are so determined and you are not a fool, you will feel sad because the other person ignores you, so why not make a change?

In those years when Lu Xun left home, her mother-in-law could read and write, and Zhu An had nothing else to do, but she never thought of learning culture from her mother-in-law to make herself less superficial. It never occurred to her that her husband is becoming more and more famous, and she can learn something new from him so that she can be worthy of each other. What she does every day is washing clothes and cooking, feeling sorry for herself, sitting there waiting for Mr. Lu Xun to find her back!

I'm afraid this is not a silly woman, is it? The person you love is making progress, growing and getting better, but you keep standing still, expecting others to understand, cherish and love you? Isn't this a pipe dream?

When Lu Xun took his mother and Zhu An to Beijing, Lu Xun once again asked Juan if he had thought about leaving. After all, such a nominally unrequited marriage may not be happy for Juan.

But Zhu An refused again and lived with Lu Xun. Still sleeping in separate rooms, still no more than three sentences a day, even for the nanny around him, Lu Xun may say more than these words. Doesn't he really know what to say to this woman who is completely in two worlds with himself to talk about new ideas? She doesn't understand! Talking about daily life, is it short for parents? Lu Xun doesn't like it! How can this be communicated?

Mr. Lu Xun said many times that Zhu An was a gift from his mother. Even if he doesn't like it, as long as his mother likes it and Zhu An is willing, he can only always support Zhu An. There is no other way. So when he met Xu Guangping, Lu Xun fell in love, and he followed his heart. He is not afraid of Zhu An can't accept it. After all, he always showed her the way and let her control everything. If you don't like it, you can leave!

What is Zhu An doing at this time? She is unhappy, dissatisfied, even angry and angry. But she didn't dare to do anything against it and didn't want to do anything to change it. She just looked at it, waiting, expecting and suffering! A woman is so numb and timid that she can't even fight for her normal rights. Who wants to help her fight for it? Who can think of her, care about her and cherish her?

In the following decades, Zhu An regarded the children that Xu Guangping gave to Lu Xunsheng as his own children, and put himself at the end of the righteousness. It never occurred to her that in the 4 1 year since she married Lu Xun, if she dared to make some changes and boldly strive for something for herself, I'm afraid Lu Xun wouldn't treat her like this!

In her eyes, three obedience and four virtues, virtuous and peaceful, indisputable and not angry, in Lu Xun's view, is really pedantic! Like a numb doll, unconscious. No one can love such a person.

Perhaps in these decades of marriage, Lu Xun felt guilty about her, but he didn't owe her anything. And guilt, not love, but can't give each other such pain, but can't take the initiative to give her a free man! And Zhu An poor? It's really pathetic. Being a wife for 4 1 year, I have never enjoyed anything except serving my mother-in-law and doing housework. However, should I pity her? Shouldn't she have done all this herself?

Even if you really don't like it, you really don't want to make changes for Lu Xun, so why can't you get up the courage to leave? Why spend your life with such a man who has no feelings for himself? Who else can blame for humbling yourself?