"No matter how poor you are, never let your children wear other people's old clothes." Do you agree with this sentence? Why?

Disagree. Those who wear other people's old clothes are usually from families with relatively poor family conditions, and those who give these old clothes are usually families who have a certain relationship with the family, such as relatives, friends, colleagues, neighbors, caring people, etc. The reason for not wanting to wear old clothes given by others is nothing more than these two reasons: firstly, it will feel unhygienic; secondly, it will be a matter of self-esteem, as it will make you lose face and be laughed at by others.

In fact, these two problems are not problems. Why do I say this? First of all, as I said above, the relationship between the family members who send used clothes and the family members who wear used clothes are generally at least acquaintances, and at least they do not have any malicious intentions. In addition, these people are generally They are caring people, so subjectively it is absolutely impossible for them to give some unhygienic clothes to others, and the quality of the clothes cannot be poor. At least in the opinion of the person who gave the clothes, although they feel a bit redundant, it would be a pity to throw away these clothes. So you can rest assured about hygiene issues. If the recipient really feels uneasy, he or she can eliminate the worries by cleaning himself again.

Secondly, regarding the second question, it is a mental issue and a social issue. In fact, for families who are really in financial difficulties, there is no need to think about face issues. You can relax and accept sincere help from others. It is really a good deed that kills two birds with one stone. Why not do it! ?

In ancient times, there was a way of praying for children by "eating hundreds of families' food, wearing hundreds of families' clothes, and covering hundreds of families' quilts". This has nothing to do with whether you are rich or poor!

Who are the "others", strangers? Strangers who will give you old clothes for no reason. Of course they are friends and relatives. Will the old clothes given to you by relatives and friends be bad? Anyone who has raised a child knows that a child’s body grows like an inflated rubber ball during infancy. To put it bluntly, clothes for all seasons can only be worn for one season at most, which means that the average piece of clothing is only worn for about a month (whose family Doesn’t your child have three or four sets of clothes for one season? ) Children’s bodies grow quickly, and usually by the second year these clothes no longer fit. Don't misunderstand the love your family and friends have for your baby.

I don’t know when? Only then did some people label their children as poor for wearing other people's old clothes. To put it bluntly, it's just that poor self-esteem that's causing the problem.

Let me tell you about the benefits of wearing old clothes for children, especially in infants and young children: children’s skin is relatively tender, and skin allergies are most likely to occur. Most of them are not suitable for bright colors such as colorful, because the natural color of cotton is white, and other colors are chemical dyes, which may cause allergies to children's skin if not careful. This is why experienced parents soak and wash their babies repeatedly before wearing new clothes. Where are the old clothes? Parents and nurses feel more at ease. At least they have been washed many times. They have less worries and can wear beautiful clothes.

Another important reason is that it really saves money. Nowadays, children’s clothes are more expensive than adults’ clothes. For children, new clothes can only be worn for a few days even if they are full.

Furthermore, even if relatives and friends give me old clothes, will the quality be bad? It must be the best among second-hand clothes, right? Put yourself in someone else’s shoes, if you were giving old clothes to someone else, would you be embarrassed to give them away some tattered items that have no use value?

People with a strong heart will not care about these things at all. As long as they suit the needs of their children, both old and new are treasures.

Accepting love from others is also a kind of love. Anyone who gives my baby anything to eat, wear, and play with has nothing but gratitude. Why not have more people who love children?