Looking for my husband to buy cosmetics, I had a big fight with him for what he said when he came home from work! Why?

My home is in the countryside. There is a younger brother outside my house. If I want to study, there is bound to be a person who can't read, and that person is me, so I went to work in other places early to supplement my family's income for my brother to go to school. I met my husband at work. Although we come from different places, we have gradually established our relationship.

My husband is the kind of person who is particularly frugal. He always has a plan for money and won't waste it. At that time, I thought that two people could save enough money and get married early. A few years ago, I took him home to meet my parents. I am happy on the surface, but I always feel that something is wrong. I asked my mother in the evening. My mother said that she was satisfied with her husband, but she didn't want me to marry so far away, and I couldn't take care of anything. At that time, I didn't hesitate, so I married my husband regardless.

My parents can't beat me, just like I married my husband. On the wedding day, my father actually held me in tears, and my mother cried even more. My husband told my parents that he would always bring me back to see me. In this way, a southern girl married a northern guy, and everything was strange. The only thing that is not surprising may be my husband. After marriage, we both opened a small shop to make money and never went out to work again.

Shortly after I got married, I was pregnant and expecting a child. After the baby is born, I may still have some money before, so there is no need to spend my husband's money. But after the baby was born, I basically had no money, and only my husband spent the whole family. I know my husband is frugal, so I usually think twice about spending money. Winter in the north is particularly dry. I grew up in the south and couldn't adapt. I bought some skin care products that protect skin and replenish water. I've bought it before.

When my husband came back in the evening, he saw the skin care products on the dresser and asked me why I spent money indiscriminately. I said it was too dry, my husband said, so you asked me for money to buy this kind of thing. I didn't wear these, and I didn't see anything. The more my husband talks, the more outrageous he is. Didn't I just buy some skin care products? Only 100 yuan, and it didn't cost much. My husband was still very angry and said, I thought you were going to buy something for your son. Who knew you were buying these useless things? Why don't you know anything about saving? Although the conditions at home are better now, we still have to raise children. Can't you save some money? I was so angry that I went straight out of the house, and my husband was also very angry and went out of the house.

I called my mother to complain, and she comforted me and told me, son, you should live a good life when you get married, or you should live a good life. I also knew that if I told my mother too much, she would be worried, so I didn't say much, so I told my mother to go to bed early and hung up the phone. In fact, I feel wronged and want to go home, but it's really far away. My husband doesn't understand me. After being married for so long, no one complains. I miss my parents very much. Really, don't marry too far, but I am still very happy at home!