What do you know when you grow up?

In 1 This black boy is not too cold, Ma Xiaoting asked Leon: "Is life always so bitter?" Or just childhood? " Leon replied, "It's always so bitter." I asked adults the same question when I was a child. Even when I was a student, I didn't know that those who had worked complained that they were tired when they didn't have to face all kinds of exams and competitions. Now that they have worked, I can't understand the plot better. The pain of life is like the process of a game draw. Face the pain of life strongly, and it will be better to accept it properly.

2 ? I used to think that a good friend is a lifetime, but later I found it natural to leave a field, a level or even a city. He is not as important as you once thought. You can continue to integrate into new circles.

3 ? No matter how close a friend is, she is not worthy of the man who sleeps in the same bed with her. She will still sleep in the same bed. If your best friend is cruel, you can even tell her boyfriend what you said when she was bullied, but it is difficult for her to share more details with you because of the old saying "fire prevention, theft prevention and best friend prevention". No matter how good a friend is, he will smooth out his friendship in a trivial quarrel.

4 ? Everyone's choice is the best choice he makes within his own ability. The optimal solution is mostly to stay in their comfort zone, and most people are slaves to security.

People who lack care and support, the best way to face the world is to show their thorns. They are mean and direct and don't understand other people's feelings. So their words and deeds never take it to heart.

Some girls are gentle, independent and hardworking. But there will also be unbearable side, such as cracking down on dissidents, vanity, deceiving spare tires for help, using girls' identity to hide, and so on.

From the choices they make, we can discover everyone's needs and weaknesses through careful thinking.

Some people, you see, always like to flirt, only to find out later that they just want to prove themselves through the opposite sex. With more contact, one can often find his inferiority complex in childhood or adolescence, especially because of his appearance.

Everyone will regret making some decisions, but we will still make the same choice if we rewind the scene 100 times.

5 ? Looking back, you will find that you have lost a lot. Don't worry, you will lose more. When you think like this, others have already started a new chapter.

6 ? Life is like a play, not gossip, but philosophy. People with low emotional intelligence will show their true colors.

7 ? What is depression? It's just that I had a good life, but I feel that I am not good at anything. If nothing is good in itself and you are still depressed about it, it can only be called self-pity, and it is useless to take medicine.

8 ? A girl in my college dormitory gives it to others every time she eats. She went out to get the express food and asked if anyone in the class wanted to bring the express food. She is called the angel of love by the whole class. However, every time we pick up the express, we hold it for her. She brought others lunch, and we also helped her with a large part. She only calls home twice a month and quarrels for 6 or 7 minutes in 10 minutes. People's understanding of "love" is sometimes rampant and distorted.

9 ? When you are not sensible, you like to say, "Why are you ignoring me?" Later, I realized that there is no need to ask more questions about the neglect of others. When someone tells you that you are busy, it is he/she who wants to leave time for more important people. Sometimes don't be naive to think that the other person is really busy and just wait. Don't wait for the other person to say hehe or oh, or ignore you at all, before you get angry and show your quality. Being busy is a polite way to refuse. Maybe you take your position very seriously, and it will be better for the other party to dare not refuse you.

10 ? Other people's jokes may be what they really think of you. People who often make fun of you have no respect at all. You can tell them to fuck off.

1 1 ? In today's society, no matter how "indifferent" you are to fame and fortune and "treat money like dirt", if you want to live comfortably, you have to have money. Tao Yuanming and Du Fu in the book, if they were really comfortable, would not write poems for people to see and ask for attention.

12 ? Emotional intelligence is a hidden rule. When I was young and ignorant, I hated all kinds of rules imposed on myself, thinking that they restricted my freedom. Later, I understood that only those who first agree with social rules, then endure them and finally conquer them can be truly free.

13 ? I used to believe in the barrel effect, but I couldn't do it myself. I must try my best to learn. Later, I understood that there is no need to be close to people who are different from the social circle; There is no need to touch anything that has nothing to do with the major. People's energy is limited, they want to do everything, and eventually they will accomplish nothing. Build your own longboard, you can put it together with other people's longboards ~

14 ? If you like concerts, you should go to them when you are young. After two years, your favorite singer may not be able to touch himself, and you are embarrassed to sing with a girl who is full of anthomaniac.

15 ? If you don't wear long pants in winter, your knees will hurt later. You'll know if you don't believe me.

16 ? When I was young, I thought it was cool to be brave. I can do it and help as much as I can. Later, I learned that when I saw something dangerous or troublesome, I left immediately. When I saw something bad, I ran away. Don't talk too much and don't stand out. Helping the old man who fell down was finally falsely accused and the money was returned to the owner, which was more chilling than running away from the cold. You are not required to be moral, but it is the best way to protect yourself.

17 ? Don't feel that you can't live if you encounter something. Difficulties will only increase. It's like a training process.

18 ? Selfishness is not a derogatory term.

19 ? Even if you read more truth, only experience and experience can make people grow.

20 ? Talking doesn't mean talking too much. When there are many people, you can stop talking. Everyone has a different opinion, so you can stop teaching.