You didn't go to college and you're not inferior, but ......

A friend who left the society after graduating from grade three said, "I won't go after graduating from grade three." I used to work in my own shop, and now I open my own shop. I haven't been to college, and my three views are correct and not mean. However, some dropouts become the burden and scum of society. Therefore, people's personality and quality can't be changed by going to college. Man is still that man. It doesn't matter where you go. "

Whether you go to college or not, the problems of undergraduates and junior college students are your own personal choice. Don't step on others, and don't raise yourself. Some people who go to college have poor quality, while those who don't go to college have good quality. As long as they live high, they know their life goals and dreams to struggle.

At this moment, everyone is the same, but in different ways.

The embodiment of quality lies not in whether you can go to college or not, but in yourself, the surrounding environment, innate education and acquired training. The general quality of college students is high, which may lie in reading more books.

People who haven't been to college can't deny that they have little knowledge, and society itself is a classroom.

University is just a life experience, and life is different. It doesn't mean that people who haven't studied in college are low-level, and those who have studied are higher than others.

Everyone has his own situation and necessity. Since we have chosen a road, we naturally have our own scenery, and society just needs talents at different levels to operate reasonably.

Personality and environment vary from person to person. I didn't feel very good when I was in college. Everyone has his own way, and only by working hard can he gain something.

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Although I don't think that not going to college is inferior, reading more books is a good thing after all.

From the utilitarian point of view, reading is a real change of fate at least for rural people.

Be noble, and people who go to college will change their horizons.

Whether going to college is useful or not actually varies greatly among people of different classes.

Take me for example. For a humble rural girl like me, going to college is too important. This is almost the only way to escape from work for a few years and then go home to get married and have children.

Grandparents are old farmers who farm the land, and their parents became teachers by studying, getting rid of the days when they faced the loess and turned their backs to the sky. My parents sent me to college amid opposition.

Many people suggested to my father that a girl should get married after finishing college. Nothing at home can help. There is no need to go to college. After graduating from high school, you can help your family for a few more years.

My father said: learning is a girl's life. Since she is going to leave her parents for a lifetime, she should live a better and more fulfilling life.

Now I have graduated from college and found a good job to support myself. I can send some living expenses to my parents every month, but those who once laughed at their parents' stupidity are now red-eyed.

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Rural families have no background and no ability. There are not many college students in the village a year. In order to get rid of the work in the factory assembly line, there is no need to get married early and be a housewife. It was really going to college that gave me a different life and choice. You will find that your ideas are quite different from those of your classmates who left school early to work, not to mention how much money you earn.

The old classmates who used to study together, those who went out to work after finishing junior high school and high school, are now married and have children, and it is still scary to think about it. Obviously, they are only in their early twenties, as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade, and are about to start family life. Obviously, when they were children, they would take care of the housework with their children, and they still couldn't get out of this small county by repeating the lives of their predecessors.

I can't say absolutely, but I'm better than most of my classmates who got married prematurely, not to mention how great it is to go to college.

But for most rural children who are born in rural areas and have no access, going to college is indeed a good way to change their fate.

Education level will also affect the circle you associate with. Look at the people and friends around you now, and then look at your classmates who stopped going to school in junior high school and high school before, and you will know where the gap is.

Now chatting with old classmates, most of them are swearing, not to say that it is good to study for a few more years, but the basic moral level gap is there.

When I was in college, all their children were in kindergarten. Meeting each other means how well I married, and my life is at least five years ahead of me.

In fact, in rural areas, getting married is to have a suite in the county and then drive a car.

I don't envy it at all, and even feel a little silly.

Sometimes I feel that I have nothing to talk to them. I don't look down on them, but I'm really not on the same channel.

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But going to college is really important.

The stay-at-home mom said, "First of all, I went to college and now I am a stay-at-home mom. I don't feel any superiority, and I don't feel any higher quality. But ... I can feel from my circle of friends and around me that a woman with a slightly higher education and a woman with a slightly lower education have different happiness abilities for a family. The vision of children's education is also different. At least every time you take your child out, you can see the behavior of your child. "

Think of a joke I once heard:

"Mom, what is a cornea?"

"The footplate is a membrane attached to the foot."

I think this may be the subtle influence of the university on one's ideological horizon.

People's quality is influenced by many aspects, and education is only one of them. You may be influenced by other things, leading to your three views, but education can better pass on positive thoughts to the next generation.

But sometimes it must be admitted, is the horizon of studying in college the same as that of not studying? Is it the same with educating children?

Many people will measure how much they earn without going to college, but this is wrong in itself. Going to college does not mean that the salary is high, and the salary of people who don't go to college is not necessarily low.

I used to hear from the villagers that it was useless to go to college. It is better to spend four years working to earn money, and the final salary is higher than those who go to college.

I used to think so, but now I think it doesn't matter whether I go to college or not. The important thing is that I feel that my vision is broader and my three views are different. Thinking more is more valuable than those material gains.

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Going to college is to get in touch with people and things that I have never been in contact with, to have the opportunity to correct my mistakes, to have more time to think, and to slowly correct my three views after reading a lot.

Young people in rural areas really need to study if they want to integrate into big cities. Diploma is very important. You made the right choice. Believe in yourself. After all, in the future, social competition will become more and more fierce, and living on the basis of living in rural areas will be eliminated by this rapidly developing society sooner or later.

Although some jobs may not require such a high degree, some companies just require a high degree. Think about the job you want to apply for, and your education is holding you back. ...

I work in the human resources department. It is really important to have a good diploma. Now I won't recruit people below junior college, except those engaged in sales and marketing.

Moreover, it is difficult to be promoted with low academic qualifications and high ability, and management still needs knowledgeable people.

University may not be very good, but it can help a person to establish higher values and have farther goals. It is not that universities are awesome, nor are they necessarily better than people who are not awesome.

But the thought is definitely higher than that of people who have never been to college, and there must be differences in world outlook and outlook on life.

Whether you go to college or not, your efforts deserve respect.

I also want to say: Teenager, reading more books is right.