Too many words are nonsense, just like how can there be so much to say between people?

I have some humble opinions, I hope they are useful: (If you are a good friend, the most important thing should be frankness and sincerity!)

(1) How to make friends?

1. Be confident: this is the most basic! Confidence is something you give yourself, others can’t give it to you, and they can’t take it away either!

2. Speak generously, do not speak in a low voice, or be timid;

3. Look into other people’s eyes when they are speaking, and do not look around;

4. You can start by talking about the basics of life, such as the weather, where you come from, and which school you go to;

5. Be cheerful and optimistic;

(2) Care too much about what others think , I put too much thought into whether I am "alternative", what should I do?

If you want to become more extroverted, you must have a transition period. This transition period is an "alternative" performance that makes people feel a little unnatural, but introverts must become extroverts. You have to go through this transition period. During this period, don’t care about what others think. If it feels unnatural, just treat it as if you are telling a bad joke. Believe in yourself, maybe it will get better in a few months, maybe a year. Yes, there's nothing wrong with it, it's just that I'm a little less confident and free and easy.

I always can't let go. One day, when you look away, everything will become clear. Don't care what others say, take control of yourself! What a direction. As long as the general direction is right, it doesn't matter the ups and downs in the middle. You have to know that on the way to success, we will definitely encounter failures, but as long as we persist, the final result will be good!

Confidence cannot be given to you by others, but it cannot be taken away! Because confidence is given to you by yourself! Don’t care what others think, just do what you should do and say what you should say!

< p>Let me tell you, your situation is far different from when I was in high school. At that time, I had mental and physical problems that were much more serious than yours... But because I later let go of everything and looked away from everything, I finally slowly changed. Come here and gain confidence through small challenges until you are outgoing

(3) What should I do if I can’t speak in front of a girl?

Like me, I can do it online. I talk endlessly, even like an emotional expert, but in life I am like an "innocent and shy child";

Although the theoretical knowledge is in place, I have no emotional experience after all;

So there is a Don’t rush in the transition process, take your time, adapt slowly and practice;

You can say less at the beginning, basic greetings, etc., then continue to challenge yourself, continue to build confidence, and wait until you adapt. That's great;

You are great, at least you dare to say it online, I believe you, come on!

(4) I feel like the other person can talk, but I can't speak?

You can start with the basics, such as some things in daily life: the weather, which school you come from, delicious food, movies...Give yourself some challenges gradually, and in small challenges one after another Build up your confidence and eventually you'll be able to go with the flow and be comfortable.

But sometimes others may just appreciate your simplicity, so you can just keep your nature. There is no need to echo too deliberately or care too much about whether what you say is tasteful or profound...

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(5) How to get along with colleagues?

Relax your mind and don’t care so much~ Only then can you live a happier life! Because no matter where you are, there will always be some friction with colleagues and leaders!

1. Talk less, especially nonsense and boastful words. Silence is golden, but once you speak, say something useful and effective;

2. Obviously some etiquette You still have to pay attention to the things on the Internet, respect your leadership, and be friendly to your colleagues and friends;

3. Don’t worry about it. Just understand some things. There is no need to ask them to change or develop according to your own ideas. , which means "not fighting against the world, but being as wise as a fool";

4. Do things seriously and do practical things. If things are done well and the work is done well, you will naturally be reused. Don't be complacent with small achievements;< /p>

5. Be open-minded. Health is blessing, family harmony, and smooth work are great blessings;

6. There will always be some unfair things in this society, and we don’t need to There is no way to change others, all we have to do is to do what we should do, and gold will always shine!

Wish you happiness~