My boyfriend and I have different surnames in the same village. Anyway, my mother didn't agree, saying that it was inappropriate for the two families to get too close, saying that they would be gossip

My boyfriend and I have different surnames in the same village. Anyway, my mother didn't agree, saying that it was inappropriate for the two families to get too close, saying that they would be gossiped by others. What should I do? Maybe your mother's worry is not that the two families are too close, and others will gossip, maybe it is other reasons. Now you can compare boys of the same age horizontally in the role of the ordinary opposite sex. Is your boyfriend good enough? Is he good in appearance, good in personality or good in education, etc. Then there is the family. People in the same village must know their family situation. If your boyfriend's family is good and enviable, maybe these are the reasons why your mother cares. Talk to your mother first and find out.