"My son is a college student. You call it mountain climbing." Is it wrong for the bride to speak and her mother-in-law to become a laughing stock at the wedding?

Marriage is a matter for two people. Once you have love, sometimes those external conditions are not so important. Although many people say that it is important to be suitable for each other, I believe that most people will choose love when choosing between love and bread.

After all, in today's materialistic society, true love has become hard-won, and many young people do not emphasize the importance of material things. After all, in their view, a good life can also be won through struggle, but once there is no love, so much effort is in vain.

In fact, the poverty of life is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you are obviously in the low place but you don't know it. Such blindness and arrogance can easily affect others and make them look at jokes. In particular, the mother-in-law has become so overbearing that she has no clear position on the situation of her son and daughter-in-law. In the end, she can only shoot herself in the foot.

Mother-in-law should give her children enough space. Since two people really chose to combine, they must have deep feelings. If neither of them makes excessive mistakes, what's the point of trying to stop or even look down on them?

What can only be exchanged is the child's rebellious psychology. What are the consequences of ruining a child's marriage with your own efforts? You may lose a daughter-in-law, and your son will be dissatisfied with himself. Only shortcomings are bad. As adults, they should be able to take responsibility for their actions. Don't you understand this truth?

Although Lulu is now working as an accountant in a private enterprise, she also earns 6,000 to 7,000 yuan a month. This kind of work is quite enviable in a small county, but Lulu has a knot in her heart, that is, she graduated from an ordinary college, and her classmates are all college students or even graduate students, which makes her a little embarrassed in her academic qualifications.

And my boyfriend is my high school classmate. He graduated from college for three years and now works as a temporary worker in a company. Because I didn't get into the official establishment, my monthly salary was not half as good as Lulu's. However, Lulu doesn't care about money. She thinks it's enough for two people to spend together. After all, everyone will make progress. She intends to take the self-taught undergraduate course to improve her academic qualifications.

Two people are still squeezed into a rented house that has been rented for two years. Lulu's parents were so distressed that they even threatened not to get married if the man didn't pay the down payment to buy a house. Lulu is very upset about this. She knows that her boyfriend's family is not rich, and it is not easy to train a college student. Plus, my boyfriend's career is not smooth, and I don't want to give him too much pressure.

So she calmed her family, but didn't tell her mother-in-law. She thought she could get her husband's family's understanding by holding things down. However, in the eyes of her mother-in-law, the uncompromising attitude of her future daughter-in-law encourages her arrogance, thinking that this is a mean girls, while the son of a college student is going to marry a girl who graduated from a vocational college, which makes her feel very unbalanced.

Such prejudice has always existed in her mind, and it is really a realistic version of arrogance and prejudice. The saddest thing is that he obviously has no advantages, but no one despises the illusion that he is standing at the top of the mountain. In fact, he is only at the foot of the mountain.

Even the unlucky couple decided to get married. Lulu was busy with her work and didn't care too much about her mother-in-law's support. She felt that her efforts would be seen sooner or later. Poor birth may not mean anything, everyone is striving for progress.

But even her own compromise is not her mother-in-law's restraint. It was not until the most important wedding day that her mother-in-law said in front of everyone that she was completely angry.

On their wedding day, although there was not much ostentation and extravagance, many people were invited, except relatives, most of whom were high school classmates in Lulu. They witnessed the journey of two people together and sent the most sincere wishes.

In the face of friends' blessings, Lulu accepted them one by one, and looked at her friends who had their own careers at a young age, or some of them were iron rice bowls, which made Lulu very envious. Is education really meaningful? Looking at her husband who is not self-motivated, she shook her head helplessly, hoping that everything would be fine.

The wedding took place according to normal procedures, and Lulu couldn't hide the smile on her face. However, when the MC sent a message to her mother-in-law according to the agreed procedure, did she have anything to say to her daughter-in-law, but her mother-in-law seemed to seize the only opportunity, picked up the phone and scolded her daughter-in-law, which made everyone here panic.

My mother-in-law stood up rudely and said to Lulu, "Lulu, you know, my son is a college student who we have worked hard to cultivate. I didn't want to say anything on this big day, but now that I have said it, I will say what I think. "

When everyone was full of expectations, my mother-in-law went on to say, "I know your family also expects our family to buy a house and a car, but why don't you consider your education, my son's education?" When a son is admitted to a career, he will be an iron rice bowl. My son is a college student. You call it climbing a mountain! "

When this was said, everyone was silent, and Lulu's face turned from white to green. She felt that her husband had sweated holding her hand, but with her husband's temper, she would definitely not pinch her mother in public, but at this time, her mother was obviously unable to sit still. Now that things have come to this, Lulu is not afraid of war.

She grabbed the receiver and said to everyone, "Well, now that we're talking, I'm not afraid of jokes. However, I admit that my education is not very good. I have been working for several years. Although there is no guarantee, I can save a lot of money every month. "

"In addition to the past education, what else does your son have? I didn't say that. There are several graduate students here. Did they say anything? Don't always talk about education. I graduated from college for three years and have been a temporary worker. If I really have the ability, why haven't I passed the exam for so many years? I can't afford a salary of 2,800 a month. "

The audience burst into laughter, and the host obviously could not control the scene. It was the first time in his career that his mother-in-law became a laughing stock at the wedding when the bride opened her mouth. I haven't had time to come up with countermeasures to ease the atmosphere, and the scene has become a mess.

Because the mother-in-law felt that she would lose face and wanted to take the opportunity to humiliate her daughter-in-law, it became the biggest joke, exposing her son's shortcomings one after another and making him feel ashamed. The wedding can't go on normally, even if the scene is still noisy, both families obviously can't sit still. The master of ceremonies hastily announced the end of the wedding, and the guests present were still reluctant to leave as if waiting for a joke.

The husband also showed displeasure and asked Lulu why she wanted to embarrass herself on the wedding day. That's great. Everyone knows his meager salary every month. Lulu sneered in her heart. What did your own mother do to lose face for me?

When two people came home, they ignored each other. One slept in the bedroom and the other in the living room. Lulu heard her mother-in-law call her husband again and again, and her husband comforted her again and again. Lulu thought that her mother-in-law must have said a lot of bad things about herself on the other end of the phone. She doesn't care. Anyway, she made a fool of herself in front of relatives and friends. Let nature take its course in the future. If the mother-in-law still holds on to this matter, she will naturally be merciless.

Lulu's mother-in-law wants Lulu to lose face in front of her friends, so as to enhance her prestige and let everyone know that her daughter-in-law is not worthy of her son, but now she has made a mess of the whole wedding and everyone is pointing fingers at her.

Sadly, even if I didn't realize my narrow vision, I was like a frog in a well. In this world, I am just a tiny creature. It's not easy to finish this life. I want to make trouble for myself on trifles.

It is not easy to bring up a child. It must be the wish of parents to watch their children get married. Although it is understandable that parents are picky about their children's other half, they are also families who want to live together after all. But when you treat your future daughter-in-law with a condescending attitude, it must be unacceptable to a good-natured person.

In fact, people are all developing, so we should look at the future from a developmental perspective. It is too one-sided and ridiculous to judge others' abilities only by their academic qualifications. A discerning person can understand the truth at a glance, but the parties still don't understand it, and they are proud of their cognition. In fact, external conditions and the happiness of marriage cannot be equated, not to mention being complacent without academic qualifications, which is too short-sighted.

Such a mother-in-law is self-centered, and it is also a hard-won blessing to meet a daughter-in-law who will make money and be motivated. In this way, we should reflect on our son and consider whether his son really deserves such an excellent daughter-in-law.

Birth does not mean anything, but living beautifully is the result. This family is fighting for a better future in a friendly way. There may be no achievements now, and no one can guarantee what will happen in a year or even five years. The idea of having goals in mind and urging each other for progress is what a good marriage should look like.

Therefore, when a mother-in-law doesn't have to interfere with her child's marriage too much, sometimes it will only backfire and affect her child's happiness without knowing it.