How to judge a real breakup and a fake breakup?

How to judge a real breakup and a fake breakup?

How to judge a real breakup and a fake breakup? Ask your heart if it needs saving. After entering marriage, only the triviality of life remains. Whether your partner changes his mind is a very serious problem. Here's how to judge a real breakup and a fake breakup!

How to judge 1 1 by different emotions between a real breakup and a fake breakup?

Fake breakup: This kind of breakup usually means that the woman will delete your qq and WeChat, but will keep your phone number. If you contact him by phone, you must show an angry or reproachful tone when you call him. This is a typical fake breakup, which also shows that the contradiction is serious. At this time, you must cleverly find opportunities to save it, such as calling every other week.

Real breakup: the other person doesn't care about you at all, and you become dispensable like air. The other party blacked out all your contact information and left none. That girl may be really disappointed in you.

No matter what you do, you may feel bored or shy. You can choose another way to save. If the other person's mood fluctuates, this is also one of the more important recovery indicators.

I can't even see you.

Fake breakup: Even if she blackmails you again, she will contact him through other channels, so that you can meet. This may be a fake breakup.

Maybe the other person is testing you. I hope you can ask her out to see you. If you are soft-hearted, maybe the two will make up again.

True breakup: If you ask her out through any channel and she doesn't meet, it means that it is very likely that the two will never meet again, and you won't get any response anyway. In this case, only a real breakup is possible.

Step 3 disappear completely

Fake breakup: You may appear from time to time, and you may have a certain circle of friends because of something. This is a typical fake breakup.

Real Break-up: When a girl breaks up with you, she may choose to disappear completely, indicating that she has begun to give up on you completely, indicating that she has psychologically regarded you as a stranger, even though you may not look at you in the same class, there is no need for you.

4. Friends around you

Fake breakup: If you two break up and friends around you start to persuade you to get back together, it means that one party may want his friends to persuade you. This is a typical fake breakup.

Really break up: friends around you may not mention each other, fearing to poke the pain points in their hearts. Friends of both sides may think that you are not suitable to be together or really broke up instead of being emotional, so they will not mention anything about each other when they get along with you again, even if they hear a little trouble, they may not tell you.

How to judge a real breakup and a fake breakup? 2 communication (telephone, WeChat, QQ)

If it is a fake breakup, the other party will generally not blacklist your phone number, WeChat and QQ (even if you delete it in a rage, you can add it back soon). You don't care how bad the other person's attitude is. As long as she still ignores you, answers your phone and sends you text messages, at least she is still communicating with you, and there is great hope to save her life. If you really break up, you won't answer the phone and text messages, both WeChat and QQ will blacken you and treat you like a stranger. Therefore, whether the communication is normal or not is an important indicator to judge the fake breakup and the real breakup.

Emotional indicators (anger, blame, cursing)

Sometimes when you call the other party and don't answer, both WeChat and QQ are deleted, which is not necessarily a real breakup. In fact, in many fake breakup cases, the other party deleted your QQ or WeChat as soon as he was energetic, and kept the mobile phone. When you call the other person, she (he) shows vitality, and may blame you and other emotions, indicating that this is just a fake breakup, but it also shows that your resistance is more important.

It's really terrible for a lover to quarrel with you, but it's not terrible to quarrel with you. Ostentation and extravagance shows that she (he) is in a state of emotional turmoil, probably to get your attention. The real breakup is basically ignoring you, and your whole person is just like the atmosphere on her (him). What she (he) does is silence and basically ignores you. Because she (he) is really disappointed in you, she will be silent. No matter what you do, when she (he) hates or avoids it, then you have to think about the recovery strategy in a different way, so the emotional turmoil of the other party is also one of the extremely important goals in recovery.

Social circle (relatives, friends, things)

If the other person broke up with you, but she (he) didn't tell her relatives, her friends, or her classmates, it means that she is still giving you a chance to recover temporarily. However, if everyone in the social circle knows about it, then the breakup is true. In practice, what many friends do is, as soon as they hear other news, they keep looking for their' girlfriends, brothers and friends' to help them find love, but the result makes the purpose more boring. The opportunity to achieve great success was wasted. It's really tangled that lovers didn't tell others that you broke up. Because she (he) has other interests in her heart, she (he) has also left herself a way out. Because she (he) is looking at the work you want to do, if she (he) gets back together in the future, she (he) doesn't want to be seen as a joke by her (his) friends.

Of course, if the other party tells her (him) that you broke up, it has already been clarified. The other party is thoughtful and she (he) wants to break up with you. Then, at this moment, you can't just take the gum off and beg her (him), but open it for your resistance.

Collection status (talk, diary, circle of friends)

The rest of the time, the other party will probably go to her (his) circle of friends in Weibo and WeChat to send some messages, say some words, all kinds of chicken soup for the soul, all kinds of disguised writing styles, just like a cold heart will die, love is related to others, even if a person walks up strongly. . . There is also a silly action, some people will send some dating processes with the rest of the opposite sex to comfort you, hoping that you will be jealous, and some will break up falsely.

If it's a real breakup, she (he) can be silent without sending Weibo or WeChat, just like seclusion in the Dead Sea. Therefore, it is also a reference target to look at the static communication set of the other party.

Inviting environment (catering, parties, games)

Even if she blackmails you and you contact her (him) through other channels to invite her (him), she still promises to meet you. This situation may still be a fake breakup. But if the other person starts to say something like this to a friend: "If we meet, you must not bring so-and-so or I won't go." "Starting today, but don't tell me what others tell you, or we won't even have friends." Explain that the other party doesn't want you to appear in front of her eyes, then this situation is likely to be a real breakup. So whether you can invite is also a reference sign.

Disappear completely (meet, intersect)

When the other person breaks up with you, she (he) chooses to disappear completely, which means that she (he) has completely given up on you. If she (he) already treats you as a stranger in her heart, it can only explain two things. First, she (he) really has no demand for you. Second, she (he) hates you too much. You really disgust her (him) so much that she feels that she wants to run away completely. If it is the first case, that is the real breakup. If it is the second case, it is a real breakup in a broad sense. It is relatively difficult to recover, which requires professional recovery programs and skills.