When a man and a woman are in a long-distance relationship, who will go to whom? [Forward]

When a man and a woman are in a long-distance relationship, who will go to whom? If the woman desperately abandons everything and goes to where the man is, the relationship will generally not end well. If it is a man who goes to the woman's city regardless of everything, the result is usually a happy one. Years ago, when the two of them got married, I really wanted to say these words to them, but when I saw their happy faces, I held back. Yesterday, I accidentally saw this sentence on Weibo, and I agree with it: If a man and a woman fall in love in a long-distance relationship, if the woman desperately abandons everything and goes to the man's place, the relationship will generally not end well. If it is a man who goes to the woman's city regardless of everything, the result is usually a happy one. The person who told this joke said that the poor man is like a young man in his 20s, who wants nothing. The rich represent the little girl around 20, who can have whatever she wants as long as she is willing. As a result, I worked hard with the young man wholeheartedly. After N years, I worked hard together until I was over 30. I finally had a successful career and a comfortable family. At this time, men have everything they want, but girls have missed the best years of their lives and dedicated everything to their lovers, children, and families. The appearance has been damaged, and the waist has become watery, similar to the situation where Thai fragrant rice has turned into sake lees. After reading it, I felt sad. I don’t know what the little girls are like now. I only know that the little girls of my era loved him just because they loved him. It had nothing to do with money or status. One after another, love is like a moth flying into a flame. There are also many people like me who have simple and persistent wishful thinking: I want to accompany him to start from scratch, and it doesn't matter even if I lose the whole world, at least, we still have each other's love. Therefore, we can eat a bowl of Shabo rice for two people. If at the end of the month, he is so poor that he only has one yuan left in his pocket, he will always buy a pack of the cheapest Huafeng instant noodles, and at the same time, he will also buy a fifty cents for him. eggs, because I eat eggs and he only eats noodles. I have seen too many boys complaining, saying that today’s girls dislike the poor and prefer the rich, and are realistic and utilitarian. I have seen many boys seeking marriage saying: They want to find someone with whom they can work hard and get along well with each other. The newly married girl in front of her had a happy smile on her face, leaning on the boy's shoulder. They didn't hold a wedding, and naturally they didn't have a new house, new furniture, or new appliances. They even had a marriage certificate because they didn't hold a wedding, so the man's parents didn't come back. They were temporarily living in the woman's natal home. The three of us were quietly eating melon seeds and drinking tea. We wanted to speak, but we didn't know where to start. After a while, I spoke: Since you two are married now, I have to tell you something, about my past.