Dating my girlfriend, she didn't spend a penny, but I paid for it. What should I do?

Many people go out to date in love and choose AA system. Some people are in love, and when they go out, their boyfriends spend money. As girlfriends, they feel free to go out with their boyfriends. It's good for boyfriends to spend money. In fact, if they spend money, there is nothing to criticize, but when their boyfriends are not rich, girlfriends always let their boyfriends spend money. It's not appropriate. At this time, as a boyfriend, you can take the initiative to put forward some ideas with your girlfriend. If the other person can't even understand himself, there is no need to continue dating.

First, the boyfriend's money is not blown by the wind, so girls should be more considerate. Especially for college students who just graduated, their salary will not be particularly high, so when dating their girlfriends, boys are always required to spend money, and girls also go to some high-end places, which will make it difficult for boys to bear the financial burden. It is human nature for boys to give some suggestions to girls appropriately.

Second, boys usually spend their own money, but they always have to pay for dating their girlfriends. Even so, the money may not be enough. Some people spend a lot of money in love, because their girlfriends always go to some high-end places, and their income is not so high, even if they are frugal. At this time, their boyfriends can appropriately propose to their girlfriends that they should adopt the two-person AA system in the future, or spend more on their own and less on their girlfriends. If this situation is unacceptable to their girlfriends, there is no need to continue talking.

Third, girls and boys are not necessarily looking for each other's money. Many girls are willing to spend their own money as long as the other party is sincere to themselves. It takes a process for boys to grow up. They don't have much savings in the first few years of work, so when they go out to fall in love, their expenses are always tight. At this time, if girls are considerate, they will go to places where they don't spend much money. If they don't care about their boyfriend's feelings, there is no pressure to spend money, and their boyfriends don't care about face, just explain the situation directly. If their girlfriends break up with themselves because they earn less money, then they should be grateful.