The more parents like to do which things, the lower their level?

Not only are children the faces of their parents outside the family, parents are also role models for their children. A family must work together to achieve better results. The actions of each family member are inseparable from the entire family. Just like children are divided into good and bad grades based on their grades, others will also divide them into different levels based on the performance of their parents. Parents with high levels of education will look down upon their children, while parents with low levels of education will naturally think that the children they raise will not be any better.

We all want to be the kind of high-level parents in the eyes of others, but we always make mistakes without knowing it. After all, as adults, others will take face into consideration and will not expose them easily. Little do they know that they have been classified as a low-level parent, because the lower the level of parents, the more they like to do these things, and the children feel embarrassed for their parents.

Like to laugh at others outside to show off themselves

High-level parents will be more humble and will not deliberately show off what specialty classes their children have enrolled in or what summer camps they have selected. How many certificates have my children received? Because whether a child is excellent or not, others will know sooner or later, and there is no need to deliberately show off to others. Nor will we sneer at others or ridicule them just because their families or children are not as good as our own.

But low-level parents, the more they achieve small achievements, the more they like to show off in front of others. They will also feel complacent and laugh at others because others are not as good as their children or their family conditions are not as good as their own. I don't know how to consider other people's feelings at all. I like to find a sense of presence in others, but I keep silent about those who are better than myself.

Like to lose temper in public places

Warm warning signs such as "Please do not make loud noises in public places" can be found in various public places. There are signs posted, but there are still many people who pretend not to see it. Especially when I see parents who take their children out to have fun together as a family, they are always impatient with their children and lose their temper at every turn.

The level of parents depends on their attitude and patience towards their children. The more outside they are, the more parents with high levels will take care of their children's emotions. On the other hand, parents who keep yelling at their children will not only fail to achieve the educational effect, but the children will also feel ashamed for attracting attention. And losing your temper and yelling loudly in public places also affects other people's travels.

For people who cannot even control their emotions well, in public situations, others will think that their parents are very sophisticated and well-educated. It will only leave a bad impression.

Like to point out other people’s lives

Some parents think that they have done a perfect job in family management and children’s education, so they like to point out other people’s lives. As a life coach, I never think about whether others are willing to listen to my opinions. In today's life, just take care of yourself. Every family has its own situation. Don't always speculate on others based on your own thoughts.

Do not judge others by yourself and evaluate the lives of others at will. This is an essential moral cultivation for a qualified adult. It's really not elegant to always interfere in other people's lives and make pointers and make wild guesses. In the eyes of children, it's also very shameless.