The virtuous mother-in-law who helped me wash my underwear drove me into depression in three months.

When Qin Tian and I got married, my relatives all said that I was lucky because I had someone protecting me from childhood to adulthood.

When I was young, my father was in business and could make money. My mother was a hard-working and virtuous mother who dressed me up beautifully. I also did all kinds of farm work and housework that rural children need to do. No need to do it.

Occasionally I bring water for my dad’s feet, and my dad always praises me as a treasure.

My grandparents said that my mother should not spoil me so much. A girl should do what girls should do. How can I get married in the future?

My relatives have also been waiting to see my jokes for 25 years.

Grandpa and grandma said: "Who would want to marry a wild girl like you? She doesn't cook or wash her clothes. She only knows how to read all day long. Reading can be used as food."

< p>Unfortunately, I have disappointed everyone. At the age of 25, I am getting married.

My boyfriend is my junior high school classmate, and our families are not far apart.

My boyfriend Qin Tian is gentle and quiet, has a great personality, can wash and cook, and is tolerant and accommodating to me. What's more important is that my boyfriend's mother is well-known for being virtuous from all over the country.

When I brought Qin Tian home for the first time, my mother smiled so much that she almost reached behind her ears. She pulled Qin Tian and gave him red envelopes and asked about the wedding date. It seemed that she didn’t want to. If I seize this opportunity, I won't be able to get married.

When Qin Tian and I got married, all my relatives on my mother’s side were filled with hatred. I had been waiting to see my unwanted relatives, but they saw that I had found a loving husband and a virtuous mother-in-law. But they soon let go, saying that all men before marriage were liars, all pretending, and were interested in my family's money. When I get married, I will definitely be tortured by my mother-in-law.

Unfortunately, I let them down again. My mother-in-law and I get along very well. My mother-in-law is well-known for being virtuous and virtuous. After I got married, she didn't let me do any housework.

I want to help, but my mother-in-law won’t let me, saying that I work hard and she can’t even handle the housework at home, so why should I help?

Every morning, I go out at seven o'clock, and my mother-in-law prepares breakfast at six thirty, and she also prepares various kinds of breakfast, all of which are my favorites; my company is close to home, and I will come home at noon. When I was eating, my mother-in-law prepared lunch for me. After the meal, I wanted to help clean up the dishes but she didn't let me, so she let me have a good rest; I wanted to do the laundry, but my mother-in-law didn't let me help either.

My mother-in-law takes better care of me than my mother. It is visible to the naked eye that I have gained some weight. < /p>

I actually didn’t want to get married so early, all because of my mother’s nagging. I actually didn’t want to have children before I was 30. But seeing Qin Tian wanting to be a father and mother-in-law anxious to be a grandma, I gave up on my original plan.

I am pregnant, and my mother-in-law is so kind to me that all my relatives know about it. The relatives who have always wanted to laugh at me seemed to have finally accepted their fate, shook their heads and sighed: "This person Ah, I really have to believe in fate. Some people are just lazy and are lucky enough to never have to do anything by themselves in this life."

I gave birth to a son, and everything seemed to be perfect, but I just collapsed. start.

I want to live in a confinement center. Firstly, I understand my mother-in-law’s hard work. Secondly, I feel that the confinement center is professional and can help me recover my body functions faster and take good care of my child. My mother-in-law refused, saying that she could take good care of me and the children, but that I would make her very embarrassed and make people in the village laugh.

Qin Tian also advised me to go home.

I was forced to eat all kinds of weird supplements every day, as well as big fish and meat. My mother-in-law wouldn’t let me eat vegetables, saying that eating vegetables during the confinement period would cause diarrhea. I wanted to take a shower and wash my hair, but my mother-in-law wouldn't let me, saying that it would lead to the root cause of the disease.

My mother-in-law wished that I could just lie in bed and not move, and would be persuaded to get out of bed and move around. I felt as if I had lost all my ability to move after giving birth to a child.

My mother-in-law even wanted me not to wash my face or brush my teeth.

Confinement is over, but the collapse is not.

I came out of the shower and found my mother-in-law washing my underwear. Although I am not good at housework, since I was in the third grade, I have washed my underwear myself, and my mother has never washed it for me.

After I got married, I washed my underwear quickly after taking a shower because I was afraid of embarrassment. I also don’t hang my underwear on the balcony. I was very embarrassed when I saw my mother-in-law hanging my underwear on the balcony.

My mother-in-law and I told her that she doesn’t need to help wash the underwear. There will be guests at home these days, so it’s better not to hang the underwear on the balcony.

My mother-in-law didn't take it seriously: "Who doesn't wear underwear? What's there to be ashamed of?"

I deliberately put my underwear in the bathroom, but my mother-in-law He broke into the bathroom while I was taking a shower, which made me even more embarrassed. I asked my mother-in-law to go out first, but she insisted that I give her my underwear and said that she would be responsible for all my clothes in the future.

When I was playing with my children in the room, my mother-in-law asked me to change clothes and said that she was going to start washing clothes. I asked her to go out first. My mother-in-law thought I was cumbersome: "We are all women, I have everything you have." My mother-in-law watched me change my clothes and took the clothes directly to wash.

Since then, I have never been shy about it. I changed my clothes in advance, but my mother-in-law wouldn't let me, saying that leaving them unwashed for a long time would cause bacteria to grow, which would be bad for the child. She also said that I would change my clothes every day until she asked me to change them.

What is even more unacceptable to me is that my mother-in-law likes to watch me feeding my child, saying that she only knows if she has eaten enough by watching her grandson suck the milk.

Another time, I took my child to the park to play. When the child cried, my mother-in-law asked me to breastfeed. I said people come and go here, find a place with few people.

The mother-in-law was not happy, "You are already a mother, and your children are the first priority. Do you care if anyone sees it? Besides, who has not grown up with breast milk? I haven't seen it yet." Women’s breasts?”

I was so shocked that I had black lines all over my face. How could I accept this?

When we went to bed at night, my mother-in-law refused to let Qin Tian and I lock the door, saying that the child cried at night and she could come over to comfort the child. But can you imagine the horror of opening your eyes one night and seeing someone standing on the bedside staring at you and your children?

After three months, I became neurotic. I always felt like there were eyes staring at me at home.

I told Qin Tian about my feelings and hoped that my mother-in-law could give Qin Tian and me some space of our own.

I don’t know what Qin Tian said to her mother-in-law. My mother-in-law cares more about me. She gets very anxious as long as I leave her sight for ten minutes. My mother-in-law would come to the bedroom several times at night, which made me even more afraid of sleeping at night. I angrily said to my mother-in-law, "Mom, if you work so hard, you might as well add an extra bed in our room, or just sleep with us."

Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law not only failed to hear my dissatisfaction, but was actually prepared to move in and live in the same room with us.

I finally couldn't help but explode, but my mother-in-law cried very sadly, saying that she even washed my underwear, what else did I want from her?

It's okay not to mention washing underwear. When I mention it, my scalp goes numb. I really feel like I'm suffering from depression, and I really want to open the window and jump out.

@小谢talk about emotions

Xiao Xie thinks that the reason for your trouble is because your mother-in-law has no sense of boundaries. Everyone should have their own space. Your mother-in-law is not aware of her own problems, so she will feel aggrieved when faced with your accusations.

She really wants to be nice to you, but this kindness becomes a burden on you.

I hope everyone can understand that not everything that is good to you is right, but that being good to me in the way I need is really good.

I’m @小xie Talk about emotions, looking forward to meeting you in the world of words.