"You don't have to worry about right or wrong, just listen." Would you like such a male chauvinist man?

Marriage is related to a woman's lifelong happiness, so you must polish your eyes before marriage. Although love is desirable, we should also have our own bottom line, otherwise the deeper we love, the heavier the injury.

Women are more emotional in love. When they really love, they often love blindly, so that they suddenly wake up after being wronged after marriage. People who pay are not worthy of becoming jokes, and feelings are equal and respectful. If the other party can't take your contribution seriously, keep it in mind and respond, it's time to stop the loss, so as not to get deeper and deeper.

Lulu met Wang Tao University and worked hard in the same city after graduation. Their relationship has always been very good, but it is not equal, because Lulu loves him more and pays more, and Wang Tao has long been used to Lulu's kindness to him, so he also enjoys it. Lulu believes that to love a person, we must tolerate everything he has, and even if it is unreasonable, he can obey it properly. After all, the rest of his life is still very long. If you are obsessed with details, you should take it for granted.

After getting married, Lulu's job began to develop, but Wang Tao wanted Lulu to be a good wife and mother. He didn't want Lulu to focus on her work, and she didn't want her salary to be higher than her own, because it would lose face, so she talked to Lulu again and again, hoping that she could focus on her family, so that she would have no worries. He often says to Lulu: I am responsible for making money to support my family, and you are responsible for being beautiful.

Lulu was very moved, because he gave up the opportunity of business trip and promotion several times, and at the same time kept his family in good order. Although Lulu felt very tired, he felt very happy. If he loves someone, he will be the main one, but if he doesn't get a response, he will be cold for a long time.

Wang Tao was satisfied with Lulu's obedience, so she took her mother over and wanted her to enjoy it. However, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was so easy to get along with. Lulu obeys Wang Tao only because he loves him too much, but he only respects her mother-in-law, far from being kind to her mother-in-law Rainbow Tao.

It happened that her mother-in-law was a nitpicker and always told Lulu to do housework. She either dislikes that the clothes are not clean after being washed twice, or that it is too wasteful to pour water directly after mopping the floor, or that Lulu's cooking is not to her taste. Lulu was tolerant at first, but her mother-in-law would be dissatisfied if she said too much.

Until then, my mother-in-law was nagging me again. LULU said directly after listening: "Mom, if you dislike my poor work, do it yourself."

"What are you talking about stupid? Women should do their duty. I said you did it for your own good. Xiao Tao didn't mention you because she didn't pay attention to details. Since I'm here, of course I have to say if I don't like it. "

Wang Tao also said after listening: "Mom is right. She eats more salt than you walk. You don't have to worry about right or wrong, just do what you say. "

At this moment, Lulu suddenly realized how much she had paid for this family and how much she had been wronged by Wang Tao. In the end, he couldn't get a word of defense from him. Lulu smiled and replied, "In that case, I will do my own thing in the future. I'm not your nanny. If I don't like it, I'll do it myself. " Lulu said and went straight back to her room. Since then, Wang Tao has never been as obedient as before.

Feelings pay attention to equality and respect. When one party takes the initiative to give everything, it also expects to get a response and cherish it, otherwise it will be difficult to be warmed up again.

Lulu's love is too paranoid and naive, thinking that loving someone needs to contain everything about him, including all his shortcomings. Her husband's male chauvinism often makes her wronged herself, and she forces herself to accept this unequal relationship in the name of love. Until the arrival of her mother-in-law, she still couldn't get a good job with her best efforts, and she couldn't get comfort and maintenance from her husband, so that she suddenly understood that sometimes it is a joke to meet someone who is not worth it, and she needs to pay everything in time.

Wang Tao also has a strong desire for control in his feelings. In her bones, she thinks that her wife is doing housework and filial to her mother, regardless of each other's feelings. When Lulu was disappointed again and again, she didn't give her enough love and response, which led to the breakdown of this marriage and the relationship between the two gradually drifted away.

Love is beautiful, but you can't love too blindly. You really need to give it to the right person. Otherwise, there is no point in paying more. Only by knowing how to respect and understand each other can we be happy for a long time.