How to distinguish love rat from love rat in love!

Hello, my friend! Our meeting is a reunion after a long separation. Click on "Follow" above, and we will be friends for life!

Text: Shili Illustration: From the Internet

Any girl who wants to find a reliable boy and become a lifelong partner needs very careful screening. After all, if she doesn't learn how to screen correctly, she will have a great chance to meet love rat. This society is very complicated. If you meet love rat, it will affect the happiness of a woman's life. Therefore, in the process of marriage, female friends should keep their eyes open. "If I hadn't met him, my life might have been completely different. Liu Xiaoli, 30, told his friend, "Now I may have a healthy and handsome child and a husband who loves me." . Liu Xiaoli was absolutely beautiful when he was young. No matter when she was a student or after she joined the work, there were always countless people chasing her. Maybe it was because there were too many people chasing her, and finally she was dazzled. I didn't expect love rat to be chosen in the end. During the period of love, Liu Xiaoli's boyfriend has been meticulous to her, but he didn't expect to be lazy after marriage. He only knows how to eat, drink and be merry every day, and he often yells at Lin Xiao Li, which is absolutely impossible during his love. Lin Xiaoli always thinks that she has done something wrong. But think carefully about what you did wrong, love your husband very much, respect his family very much, and don't ask too many harsh conditions when you get married, but why? Later, I realized that, in the final analysis, it was because I met a love rat. I didn't realize it, but I got married in a muddle.

For the majority of female friends, learning how to identify love rat in marriage and love is actually very easy and not so complicated. For example, you can judge whether a man is love rat according to his performance in the following aspects.

Whether you are single-minded about feelings depends first on whether a man is philandering, because during their love, some men are single-minded about love, but some men always like to hook up with each other. The specific criterion is also very simple, that is, whether your man will often contact other women during his love. Of course, don't check men too carefully. After all, normal interpersonal communication is still necessary. A man has some friends and women in society. So don't be too demanding of your boyfriend not to touch women, but be sure to pay attention to whether he has abnormal contact, such as secretly sending text messages to girls in the middle of the night, or asking girls out for dinner alone. This abnormal phenomenon can be a good way to judge whether a person is love rat. Whether you are tolerant of yourself or not, there will be some contradictions in the process of getting along. This contradiction may be the difference of living habits or the difference of their life concepts. Whatever the reason, contradictions always require one party to admit defeat or one party to tolerate the fault of the other.

In contrast, on the whole, boys should be more tolerant of girls, after all, the differences between men and women have caused this situation. If a boy doesn't even want to tolerate some mistakes of his girlfriend, and there are some contradictions, he always likes to yell at girls and even start work directly. Love rat like this must stay at a respectful distance from others. When looking for a partner, you must find a gentle boy, a big boy with a delicate and considerate personality, who is generally more tolerant, so that in the process of getting along, it will be more harmonious and there will be no contradictions.

Would you put yourself in others' shoes? Some girls prefer some male chauvinist boys, but when they get along with them, they really don't like this ideal boy. After all, because there are male chauvinist boys, no matter what they do or make decisions, they are always self-centered and don't consider your thoughts at all. Sometimes when dealing with some things, I don't know how to put myself in the shoes at all, just from my own point of view. Empathy is to consider some problems from your point of view and then make correct suggestions. But some boys always go their own way when dealing with some problems, regardless of other people's opinions.

Especially when two people have some contradictions and quarrels, they always think they are right, insist on their own opinions and are particularly stubborn, and finally force you to yield. After a long time, such things will definitely become more and more. So when looking for a boyfriend, try not to look for a male chauvinist man. This kind of man is the most difficult to get along with, let alone the married life after marriage. So, what should girls do after meeting love rat? After all, everyone is not picky. Some women even lost themselves in love and their IQ became zero. But after discovering love rat's various behaviors, don't argue wildly. The most important thing is to learn the correct handling methods.

What's more important is to find out in time that love rat chose to leave the girl. After discovering love rat's various behaviors, she will gradually dilute her feelings, gradually lead to feelings, and then break up decisively. Of course, when judging whether a person is love rat, we must pay attention to learn to distinguish between true and false. Some boys may be careless and make some behaviors that they think are incorrect, but they don't realize it. At this time, girls should remind boys in time. If they still don't change after being reminded, it is necessary to consider the emotional problems between two people. Therefore, if it is found that the boy who gets along with herself is love rat, the girl must decisively choose to break up and stop pestering at random. Don't miss each other because of all the good times. In fact, those beautiful memories are just superficial phenomena, just fog bombs made in love rat. Decisively choose to break up, so that you won't regret it later.

After leaving, learn to reflect on yourself. It's actually a good thing for girls to meet love rat. After all, girls have learned how to love someone correctly. After meeting love rat, the first thing you need to do is to break up decisively. After breaking up, before finding a relationship next time, you must learn to reflect on what you did wrong before finding love rat. Self-reflection is good, and next time you find a boyfriend, you can be more targeted. In fact, many girls, especially some vain girls, can easily find love rat. After all, many love rat aimed at girls who had this idea, and they hit it off. But what I didn't expect was that in the end, both sides were just playing with their feelings, and they might both get what they wanted, but it was very painful for the one who really gave their feelings.

In the whole process of marriage and love, both men and women may encounter some bad emotional experiences. In fact, these bad emotional experiences may be a kind of learning, and sometimes they are not terrible. The most important thing is to learn to recognize and get out in time, which is very important for the next relationship.

As the saying goes, a love that doesn't aim at marriage is hooliganism, so boys and girls must correctly find out whether they want to get married when looking for a marriage partner. Otherwise, this is hooliganism, which is simply playing with feelings, and finally cheating on feelings and leaving one of them crying alone. In life, we must learn to correctly identify various behaviors, so as to understand what true feelings are. Only when two people give their true feelings can they be combined into a happy family and live happily for a lifetime. The greatest happiness of a woman's life is to marry a man who loves her. If she can't find such a man, she won't even think about a happy life. Therefore, when looking for a marriage partner, women should not blindly follow the trend and gradually lose themselves. Let them keep a clear head in their marriage and truly realize what kind of man they are looking for. Only in this way can they be happy in the future and provide greater protection for their married life.