Will you ask your parents to arrange a blind date for you?

Hello, I won't let my parents persuade me. I believe in myself more. Parents' opinions are at best for reference. If the other person needs parents to persuade him, I will think:

1, he has no confidence in himself.

A person without self-confidence will doubt his own vision, even if it is such a big event as love, he can't make up his mind. Falling in love can be said to be completely your own private affair. The first thing to believe is your feelings and your eyes. After all, I will spend my life with this person.

There is no deep love between the two sides.

If you love someone very much, you won't marry her or him. You have identified with each other in your mind, and other opposite sex can't enter your eyes at all. If you are really in love, it is generally impossible to think of letting others decide this relationship. Because in your heart, you have already checked it yourself, and you have identified this person. This life is to overcome all difficulties and be with him.

3, no confidence in each other, trust parents more than trust each other.

Taken together, it is conceivable that the parties have no confidence in this relationship and lack trust in each other.

Because I have no confidence in myself, I certainly have no confidence in the person I choose. I don't trust each other because I don't love enough.

Although the other person may be a person who will spend his life with him, he is not sure about himself or others, so he will think of asking others to help him check.

It should be said that this phenomenon mostly occurs between two men and women on blind date, and there should be less free love. Because before free love, most of them have gone through a long process of temptation and pursuit. Only when both sides have feelings can they develop into lovers and determine the relationship of love. The blind date mode lacks this process or the process is short.

4. Lack of sense of responsibility and responsibility.

If a person cares about his own business, then usually he can bear the consequences of it himself. And if you have to let your parents take care of love, it usually means that he subconsciously feels that his parents should bear the key responsibility for his future marriage happiness.

People who lack a sense of responsibility and responsibility usually have no opinions, so they have to let others make decisions for themselves. Even if it is a matter of falling in love, it is obvious that the key is to look at his feelings, but he wants others to check for himself.

5. Generally, there is a lack of reconciliation ability after marriage, and parents are allowed to participate in marriage excessively.

Since you can let your parents check before marriage, it shows that you are a person with no ideas and lack confidence in your ability. It can also be predicted that you will continue to depend on your parents after marriage.

Once such a young couple have conflicts, their parents will inevitably participate. Honeymoon may survive with freshness, but marriage is a long life, and there will be a running-in period and a quiet period in the future.

Marriage and love are different, full of trivial matters and daily necessities. If the couple can't solve the internal contradictions by themselves, they will complain to their parents about every little thing. After a long time, it will gradually escalate into a war between their parents and two families, which is likely to lead to the end of marriage.

Whether you are in love or married, I advocate that you should take care of yourself. After all, it is you who spend the rest of your life with each other, not others. Even parents can only refer to their opinions.

Love and marriage are all important events in life, and a choice will affect a lifetime. Only you know yourself best, and there is no long-term happiness in escaping life. I advocate facing it bravely and listening to the truest voice in my heart.