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Love is the love and affection between men and women in love, among which love at first sight is the strongest love.

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Four basic types of love marriage

Love marriage is a major event in life. Who doesn't long for a sweet love and a happy marriage? But in reality, most people's marriages are not happy. What are the reasons? In a word: those who are deeply attached to each other are generally happy, otherwise they are joys and sorrows.

From the beginning of Pangu to the present, if other external conditions and factors are put aside, the first meeting between men and women will basically determine the happiness of marriage:

The first type: happy type:

Both men and women fell in love with each other at first sight when they met, which can be called the best fate given to both sides by God, and their love marriage is bound to be happy.

how long does it take to fall in love at first sight? The answer is 3 seconds. According to a large-scale fast dating experiment conducted by British experts, if you can't impress the opposite sex within 3 seconds, you are doomed to be a "missed person".

Because everyone loves beauty, the love at first sight mentioned here is definitely not the love of beauty! Love at first sight is generally accompanied by some emotional or physiological experiences and feelings such as closeness, pleasure and admiration, which is the "natural" basis of heterosexual attraction, especially for those men and women with similar "own conditions".

Love at first sight exists in literary and artistic works and real life. For example, Zhang Junrui in The West Chamber suddenly found Cui Yingying in the Buddhist temple of Pujiu Temple, and he was immediately fascinated. Pushkin's love poem "Yevgeny? Tatyana, the heroine in onegin, felt a twinge of heart when she first met onegin, and onegin, the hero, was fascinated by her eyes, which also showed her long-cherished feelings for Tatyana. In real life, those lovesickness and sorrow that are constantly cut and confused, I don't know how many people are "unwilling to eat", which also stems from love at first sight.

the second type: plain:

Although it is not love at first sight when men and women meet for the first time, they both have a good impression on each other. If they can have a relationship for a long time, their love and marriage may be dull and happy, otherwise, they will fall into pain and even part ways, which is the most common among all sentient beings.

The third type: happiness and pain type:

Only one of the men and women falls in love with the other at first sight when they meet, which is the best fate for the one who falls in love at first sight, but there is no other who falls in love at first sight, but there is not much feeling. If the two sides continue to communicate and even enter the marriage hall, it is inevitable that the happiness and pain of the one who fell in love at first sight will dominate the marriage of both sides. This is also the history of blood and tears of many infatuated women heart breaker or infatuated men and unfaithful women throughout the ages. The ungrateful people have little feelings for each other, so there is generally nothing wrong with it. The fault lies in the fate. This kind of marriage is generally painfully happy. According to the situation that there is no lover at first sight, it can be divided into the following two kinds of marriage situations:

relatively happy type: lover at first sight+lover = infatuated person+lover

basic painful type: lover at first sight+unloved person+ungrateful person

In this regard, if no other lover can realize this, he can be kind to the other. Otherwise, it's possible that people who fall in love at first sight will fall into greater pain, which is also common in life.

the fourth type: the type of pain and suffering:

when men and women meet for the first time, they not only don't fall in love at first sight, but even have no good feelings, which shows that the two sides have no fate, so they are generally not suitable for marriage. If you step into a besieged city because of other external factors, marriage is bound to be painful, and the probability of natural breakup is very high.

Love at first sight is suitable for all ages of life, but it is most common in adolescence. Middle-aged and elderly people have experienced a complicated life and have more demands on the other half, so the probability of it happening is relatively small. Especially in the current materialistic and impetuous era, many people's marriages have been branded with deep money marks, and many variables have been added to the above types of marriages, which have become more tortuous, confused, painful and helpless.