How can you tell the truth when you are joking?

In our daily life, we often express our feelings and thoughts in a humorous way. Sometimes, when we are joking, we will inadvertently tell the truth. These words may be our feelings and thoughts that we don't want to show at ordinary times.

For those closest to us, it may be easier for us to open our hearts, because they can understand us, tolerate us and always accompany us through the journey of life. At some point, when we feel depressed or stressed, we may say something. Although these words contain jokes, they truly reflect our inner thoughts and feelings.

For example, I once joked with my closest friend, "If there is an afterlife, I will be your brother". Although this sentence has a relaxed and humorous atmosphere, it also expresses my deep feelings for him and my desire to stay with him for a long time.

In addition, in some nervous or embarrassing situations, we may be able to eliminate embarrassment and relieve tension by joking. For example, I once heard a friend say on a date, "I think we should break up because your IQ is too high, which makes me feel inferior." Although this sentence is a joke, it also expresses his anxiety and worry about his date.

But it must be noted that when using humor, you can't hurt other people's feelings. If our jokes are too sharp or excessive, it may make the other party feel sad or uncomfortable, and such consequences are unwilling to see.

In short, joking and telling the truth is an interesting and emotional way. When we get along with the closest people, we can express our thoughts and feelings more freely, and at the same time, we should pay attention to the scale of words to avoid hurting others' feelings.