Emotional essay

It may take many years to figure out what truly trustworthy love is, a strong and lasting love. In the past, it was a mistake that many people made to regard infatuation as love. Infatuation may be just the initial stage of love, or just the bud of love. While infatuated, if there is no mutual sympathy, love will disappear quickly, because infatuation disappears too quickly.

When you are obsessed with someone, the obsessed person can do all kinds of dizzying things, including those vows of love and sweet words. A boy who was in love wrote to the girl he loved: "My lover, even if I have to go through thousands of mountains and rivers, go through fire and water, I still have to rush to your side, even if the sky is thundering, I still have to be with you. , until the end of the world." But at the end of the love letter, he added a line: "If it doesn't rain on Saturday, I will pick you up." This joke-like story exaggerates how shallow and shallow love is without pity. Vulnerable.

Pity is another component of love. Pity is love and deep sympathy, pity is cherishing, cherishing, not willing to throw away even a single bit. Pity is the strong root system of the tree of love that is deeply rooted in the soil. It will not be easily destroyed without strong damage from external forces. Some philosophers said: "Love is essentially an emotion directed towards the weak." Pity is the most essential kind of love, a mentality that is completely from the heart and is willing to pay for the happiness and happiness of the other person. A strong impulse to involuntarily want to put the other person under your protection and provide emotional and physical protection, so you do your best to pamper her (him) and feel sorry for her (him), regardless of whether you are actually more important than the other person. powerful. Pity is not pity. Pity is a kind of condescending charity, with a bit of superiority and the satisfaction of charity, while pity is gentle care and giving based on respect and appreciation, which is unconditional and selfless.

Pity is the glass of water given to your lover when he is thirsty, pity is the warning when you go out, pity is the open arms of your lover when he cries, pity is the thought that flashes through your mind on the way home in a hurry. "If I don't go home, she won't be able to sleep." Pity is a feeling of wanting to hurt a loved one for her (him) when she is sick. Pity is the stubbornness of "As long as she (he) is happy, I am willing to do anything." , pity is to regard her (him) as the most vulnerable person in the world who needs the most care. Love with pity is neither pretentious nor exaggerated. It resides deeply in the heart of the lover, ready to provide protection and warmth to the loved one at any time.

With the emotion of pity, you are not willing to do anything that hurts the other person, and you don't want to see the other person being unhappy at all. You just want the person you love to feel happy all the time. For such a goal, they will please each other, satisfy each other's needs, put the interests of the other person above their own, and make the other person feel that they are the most important person in their lover's life, and they will support each other throughout their lives. This is the deepest, strongest, strongest and most lasting love based on compassion.

Perhaps we have to go through many emotional twists and turns and it will take a long time before we can finally understand what kind of love we should really keep and cherish. But we are not necessarily lucky. We may have missed the emotion that is deeply hidden in pity but ignored by us. Therefore, when we are young, when we have the most opportunities to encounter emotional collisions, we should carefully identify the components of those emotions and see how much of them are pity. That should be the touchstone of love and can help us retain true love. Eliminate fake love.