Why do boys like to talk in dirty words?

Why do men like swearing? If you insist, it's because men are naturally dirty ― there's nothing to say, but let me analyze it. They like this kind of psychology.

First, some men will talk nonsense to kill time. If a man smiles and swears at his aimless partner, it means that he clearly separates busy work from sex. "Sex" is "sex" and work is work. The two must not be confused.

In other words, it is because the work is too monotonous, boring and boring, otherwise it is too hard and too nervous. On such occasions, this obscene language, the so-called "dirty words" in the world, will be their comfort and make them breathless.

Second, sometimes in order to enhance the harmonious atmosphere between banquets, swearing words are often used. A serious man who doesn't drink often swears once he drinks three cups of yellow soup. Men all agree that talking about serious things between banquets is the most disgusting thing.

So, in order to win applause and make everyone feel interested, what should be the topic? After picking the east and choosing the west, I will still return to this kind of swearing that is despised by women.

No one will show anger when they hear dirty jokes. When a hundred flowers blossom, say something about men and women. Strange to say, it often brings a relaxed and harmonious atmosphere. So that they naturally regard it as a social topic.

However, there are generally two kinds of jokes ―― one is "swearing" by experienced people. It has two functions. The first function is: the veteran of this road boasts superb means; The second function is to recall the glory of the past. This kind of thing should have been buried deep in my heart and not told anyone. Men speak frankly ―― it's really hard for women to understand this psychology. But as far as men's world is concerned, no matter what, including "sex", as long as they have rich experiences, they can be affirmed by the same sex.

The other is "swearing" by people with little experience. The motivation of this kind of people swearing is nothing more than not wanting to be regarded as a "novice" with little experience and a monster with no place to live. That is to say, I made it up based on wonderful vanity. It turns out! Silent listening is the best policy, but he has to be popular. So that Feidan exaggerates his own experience, and sometimes even moves out his own "fabricated" story.

Generally speaking, the so-called "yellow jokes" of sophisticated middle-aged men are very realistic and attractive, which has always been the most disgusting thing for women. On the other hand, young people with blisters on their faces are full of enthusiasm and humor when they talk dirty words.

As for the obscene remarks made by the "Darling family" in the office, it is nothing more than a reaction caused by the desire for sex. In other words, it is equal to a kind of "sexual divergence". If you have such male colleagues around you, don't immediately judge them as the lowest level men. If those swearing words are humorous, you can cut them some slack!

Although cleanliness is a virtue, when you have entered the adult stage, you might as well learn some tolerant spirit! Whenever a male colleague is swearing, don't scream hysterically: "Don't be too dirty! Have you no shame? .

Because you scream like this, they will laugh at you behind your back and say, "She can be a standard head nurse". But then again, you can't show your easygoing and join their lineup. In this way, not only will it damage your lady image, but at the same time, they will also doubt your personality.

Some men are very bad. They know that when there are young women present, they will deliberately say such ugly things. The purpose of doing this is nothing more than to see the reaction of women. On this occasion, the first man who swears is nothing more than hoping that women will pay more attention to him. Because he lacks self-confidence and can't approach women in a proper way, he has to take such measures. So if you respond to it, you just fall into his trap. Even if you are angry with him, or show shyness, it will be harmful to you.

What should I do in this situation? The smartest way is to pretend not to care. It is easy to say, but it is quite difficult to do. It's really not easy for an energetic young woman to pretend as if nothing had happened. So the negative strategy is nothing more than flattering the other person first, and then showing your dissatisfaction to him. You might as well say to him, "Mr. So-and-so, your work ability is superior." However, once you talk about swearing, your impression will be greatly reduced! "You don't tell him that, the effect is very good. After listening to you, the other person will immediately shut up and never speak again.

Lesson-the biggest role is to make the enemy aware of his tactics, which can only bring the opposite effect.