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Young man, I advise you to read more books if you have nothing to do.

The inability to calm down to read books, impatience and anxiety are all caused by growing older, not believing in the right path and focusing too much on utilitarianism. ? ——Title

When you fill out your application for the college entrance examination, you ask around to know which industry is the most popular, so that you can gain both fame and fortune in the future; when you are looking for a job, you squeeze your head to find connections. Enter the best employer, preferably one that has a lot of money but few things to do and is close to home; when you encounter a problem, you urgently need someone to tell you how to handle the matter quickly and well. . . .

I don’t know if you have discovered that from childhood to adulthood, no matter what stage you need to do, someone has made a choice for you. You only need to live your life according to other people’s ideas. Gradually, as you get older, you want to get out of the comfort zone that others have created for you, so you jump up and down, asking around, trying to find a direction suitable for your own development. But you seem to have forgotten one thing: ask yourself, do you understand yourself?

One day, I woke up from my trivial life and wanted to change my old bad habits and become a successful person, so I went online to see what habits successful people have. Learn little by little. After reading a lot, the label self-discipline carries a relatively large weight, so I made a plan and wanted to start from there. Self-discipline, to put it simply, means doing things regularly and arranging your time reasonably. So I made my own schedule based on my idol's schedule, what time to get up every day, what time to do, what time to go to bed, etc. Well, everything was done in detail and I felt good about myself.

On the first day, I hurriedly adapted to this rhythm, but by the second and third days, I was a little breathless, partly because I found that I paid too much attention to the schedule. , so that many times before the last thing is done, we start to work on the next thing. If we are too hasty and do not pay attention to the efficiency and achievements of the work, then we will need more time to rework later, which is a bit more gain than loss. Secondly, there are too many things to do during the day, and I often have to work overtime and stay up late at night, and then I can’t get up in the morning. Over time, it forms a vicious cycle. After a while, the schedule becomes just a piece of paper stuck to the bedside.

Initially, I thought I could do it. Even if I didn’t succeed at first, I could at least develop a good habit. But the result was a real slap in the face. We look at those excellent people doing extremely simple things and want to learn from them. We dream of having the same achievements as others, but we ignore that other people's excellence is accumulated bit by bit, and good habits are also accumulated one by one. Accumulated day and night.

It turns out that there are thousands of ordinary days and nights between me and outstanding people, as well as the courage and hard work that spans days and nights. Seeing other people's success, seeing other people living enjoyable lives, seeing others living the way you want, you can't suppress the jealousy in your heart. You think that as long as you work hard, it will be enough. , you can stand high like others. You blindly believe in other people's theories of success and so-called words of experience. You would rather drink and dream with others at the wine table. You would rather spend a lot of time online reading other people's theories of experience. You would rather spend a lot of money to sign up for one study class after another. I don’t want to settle down to read books and learn to study. I forget that the most precious knowledge comes from our books. I forget to ask your heart, what do you need most?

Young people, I advise you to read more books if you have nothing to do, because there is a golden house in the book. If you read well, everything you want will naturally come to you.