I feel my boyfriend's father is unreasonable and outspoken, but I like my boyfriend very much, but I really don't like his father. His father is really different.

The key depends on his attitude and personality!

If he loves you and has a strong personality and a firm attitude. Then you will have a bright future.

Otherwise, even if you pay more personally and work harder, it will be in vain!

So I suggest to think calmly and see how persistent he will be. Then make a calm choice.