What is the most important thing in marriage? Is it tolerance?

What is marriage? Marriage is two marriage certificates worth nine yuan, which legally determine each other's status in their respective lives.

Marriage is the common life of two people, and it is to determine the identity of this person from life. Marriage is that two hearts are close to each other, support each other and determine each other's position from the heart.

Whether a marriage runs well or not directly determines whether the old Yan flies away or respects and cares for each other.

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In marriage, the most important thing is a sense of ritual that is willing to bother for each other.

In society, everyone has one or more roles, such as husband or son at home, student or teacher at school, policeman or nurse at work, boss or subordinate. Everyone is playing his role, even if he doesn't like it.

And some people are willing to play for her just to make her happy.

For example, every big and small festival, men send women a bunch of flowers, and no woman doesn't like flowers; When women give men watches, everyone is cherished and loved, and men are no exception. Or on the other party's birthday, send a surprise, prepare a long-awaited gift, or elaborate a cake full of love.

Although he said it was unnecessary, he still hoped that these suggestions would be applicable to most people and any age group.

In "I only like you", Mr. F is a dark and cold person, and cold jokes from time to time can freeze people into ice. In this way, he fell in love with the lively and eccentric Zhao Qiaoyi, and he was very calm in the face of Zhao Qiaoyi's sudden slapstick behavior many times. If you were someone else, you might blame her for fooling around. It is this spoil that makes their love come true.

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Marriage is as light as water After the passion, you need something to fill the romantic corner of life.

Love, like water, is also like fire, so soft that people can't extricate themselves, so warm that people can't stop. The divorce rate in our country is rising gradually. When two people get along for a long time, they will really get tired of it. If they don't do something romantic, life will be dull. Don't say no, don't say no, it's all an excuse.

Feelings also need careful management to be happy. Premier Zhou and his wife Deng are typical examples.

First of all, besides husband and wife, they also call names. Both sides have a nickname to address each other, which will be more intimate. As Premier Zhou affectionately called his wife? Super? 、? Phoenix? , claiming? Item? 、? Hey? 、? Coming? .

Secondly, love words are essential. A compliment and I love you can make each other happy for days. Premier Zhou's sweet words can be said to be handy, such as? Looking forward to your precious photos and kissing you thousands of times? Waiting for us with envy, and then what? I don't want to disturb you when you are asleep? It can be seen that this situation is embarrassing.

And no matter how busy you are, can you be as busy as Premier Zhou? Premier Zhou went abroad for some time to handle government affairs, only slept for four hours every day, and kept in touch with his wife. Because of the distance, letters always take about a month to arrive.

Cars and horses used to be slow, but the feelings were real. Now that the news is coming, you are stingy with the word.

Deng is also very good at maintaining feelings, and he takes photos with Premier Zhou every wedding anniversary. Everything depends on human effort. Don't leave emotional matters to fate. Manage them carefully so that you won't miss your lover.

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In marriage, don't forget the original intention, and don't let trivial things kill the original beauty.

Most people are married for the first time, and they don't know how to take responsibility, so they can only refer to their parents. People in happy families want to form their own families, with virtuous and beautiful wives and lovely children, and give them love.

And those who have unhappy families hope to have their own homes so that their families will never go the way they used to.

But the imagination is full, the reality is skinny, and the hardships of life will always kill people's will and make them look ferocious. Some people stop and are irresponsible when they encounter difficulties and fatigue. Regardless of children, they lose their sense of responsibility and are attracted by the outside world.