What are the unbearable things about living with my mother-in-law?

Generally speaking, I am grateful to my mother-in-law, because she came all the way from my hometown to take care of me on the first day of my pregnancy. This is the first time in her life that she has left home for a long trip. Although she did it more for her son or the fetus in my belly, it didn't prevent me from being grateful to her! Of course, during our time together, there were some things I couldn't stand about her.

First, the old die-hards!

During my pregnancy, I emphasized to her many times that you can cook by yourself, but my cooking should be less salty and spicy. As a result, I did not interfere with them. But brainwashed me and instilled her traditional ideas, saying that they had no problem eating salt and spicy food at that time, and pregnant women should eat more salt and spicy food. Sometimes when I'm not looking, I secretly add a lot of salt, which makes me unable to eat chopsticks. I only dare to pour it out secretly, or rinse it with water before eating!

She doesn't like fruit. Every time she buys some fruit, she will nag for a long time that you are wasting money! I can't live any longer. How did people tighten their belts in the past? Actually, I really want to ask her sometimes. In the past, people didn't use mobile phones, talked about WeChat, or used WeChat to send red envelopes to transfer money. Why are you holding a mobile phone to make video calls with others now? The times are progressing and technology is developing. If people's ideas and ideas are still so stubborn, it is also the sorrow of this era.

And sometimes it is a bit ridiculous to see their tireless and indomitable fighting spirit and passion. Occasionally, such an incident happens, and you just think that he is a joke and feel a little uncomfortable. If it is staged frequently every day and never stops, it will be difficult for the family to think of a world war!

Second, don't be honest with each other, and do all the despicable things behind your back!

Actually, I've always wanted to take my children back to my hometown. First, I may not adapt to city life, and second, I am also thinking about my father-in-law. Actually, I have already said that taking care of children is our own business. If you want to take them, just tell me. If you don't, we'll take them ourselves! She doesn't want us to feel resentful because they don't help with the children in the future, and use this as an excuse to refuse to fulfill our obligation to support them. Moreover, she thinks that my son lost a lot of economic income because I took care of the children at home and didn't go out to make money. So secretly I don't know how many clever ideas I have racked my brains to come up with, good ideas!

For the first time, soon after the child was born, her parents-in-law told us that the eldest sister-in-law's child was left unattended and asked her mother-in-law to take the child back with me! I was so naive that I totally believed what they said. I didn't know until I got back that my eldest sister-in-law had been with the children. After going back for a long time, I didn't even see the child's shadow, but my mother-in-law wanted her baby to adapt to the home environment as soon as possible!

When my child was two years old, I was still at work at that time, and my mother-in-law took her child back to worship her ancestors. After dealing with my mother-in-law for so many years, I am no longer the idiot who believes everything others say! So as soon as I heard the news, I quit my job non-stop and said I would go back to worship my ancestors with them and change to a better job by the way! As it turns out, my guess at that time may be correct. Later, my husband told me that my mother-in-law confessed to him when she left, saying that she was worried about her family and wanted to take her children back to her hometown!

Because no one has ever taken care of the child, her husband did not directly refuse her, but let her try for a while! That's why I lived in my hometown for a few days. She has been trying her best to drive me out to find a job and promised me that she and her children will definitely go back in a few days! Don't trust her! So later, no matter whether she lost her temper or was sarcastic, I wouldn't leave until the child left! Later, there was nothing I could do, so I completely confessed to me! I only said one sentence at that time. In fact, if you don't want to take care of the children, just tell me. Is it interesting that the family has played so many tricks? I hate those shameless backstabbing villains most in my life, but my mother-in-law likes to do this kind of thing, so I naturally can't stand it!