A joke that never held hands.

1, holding hands is not the purpose of your love.

The purpose of liking a person should not be to hold hands, right? If two people are not happy together at all, is it more important to hold hands than not to hold hands? Since you promised to be your girlfriend, it means that she recognizes you. As for why you don't hold hands, you can reflect on the reasons. Is she slow and shy, or is it your lack of love and security?

Holding hands requires boys to make appropriate actions on appropriate occasions, so that girls do not feel danger and fear. Holding hands in the process of love should be natural, not blindly bought by you.

2. One month's contact time is too short.

It is a bit hasty to hold hands for a month and conclude that the relationship is not established. In a month's time, the two sides have just begun to get to know each other, and even met only a handful of times. Maybe you don't fully understand your girlfriend's personality, so it's a bit arbitrary to rashly use "holding hands" to measure the intimacy of the relationship. Even if you don't hold hands, you are talking with a happy smile, which is a sweet expression of love. One month is too short, and continuing to communicate can add more interaction to each other.

3. Change the way you hold hands.

If you want to get close to a woman, you must use actions, not words. Dare to explore and decide whether to continue according to the other party's reaction. Girlfriends should first have a good impression on you, and secondly, they should not exclude you from holding hands. How to hold hands without being rejected? For example, when crossing the road, it is natural to hold the girl's hand and make her feel practical; For example, climbing a mountain, walking faster when going uphill, naturally give her a hand; For example, when you meet a moving segment in the cinema, you can hold hands with the trend. .........................................................................................................................................................

As long as your girlfriend is satisfied with you and you haven't done anything out of line, her girlfriend will feel safe and accept your other ways of holding hands. Therefore, this relationship can still continue.