Do grandma neighbors really like to tease babies? Why do you always like things that can't be taught well?

Personally, I think my neighbor's grandmother really likes to tease the baby, so she always likes to teach some bad things. Grandma's neighbors are just joking, but the educational concept of grandma's neighbors was definitely different from today, so there is such a difference. In fact, this situation can be solved through communication!

In the process of growing up, children will establish their own complete cognitive system through social interaction with the outside world again and again. Frequent contact with people will have a great impact on children's social cognition, so parents need to pay attention to how to chat with their children.

I once met my neighbor's teasing about my children. At that time, I was pregnant with a second child, and my neighbor (also a relative) said to the child: Mom has a younger brother, and she won't hug you if she wants to. She loves her brother but not you! ? My child looked at me doubtfully after hearing this.

I told her on the spot: that's not true. Mom loves you forever. When you have a younger brother and sister, you want a small partner to accompany you, but one more child loves you. ?

The child asked me:? Then why do other adults say that? ?

I answered her:? She's just teasing you. This is not right. Just know that mom won't lie to you. ?

The neighbor's face certainly won't look too good, but after I made such an attitude, she stopped joking.

Children don't have a complete view of right and wrong. Will what adults have said many times come true? Brainwashing? If parents don't guide in time, the consequences will be very serious. There have been accidents before. Isn't it just adults teasing children? Mom doesn't love you when she has a younger brother? Did the little girl throw her brother down the stairs and die?

Your children should be disciplined by you, which is the boundary that we as parents must keep. If others do something that has a bad influence on them, you have the responsibility to guide them in time. Even if you offend others, you can't let your child be teased too much by others.

Of course, if it's just a joke and there is no malice, we don't have to be too nervous. There are good and bad in this world. Dealing with others more can also improve children's social skills.