Ask female compatriots what they are afraid of during pregnancy.

Hello! I am the mother of an eight-month-old baby! My fear during pregnancy came entirely from the fact that I was pregnant with my daughter. Even, I'm looking forward to having a boy in labor.

That's not true. On the contrary, I love girls very much and have always longed for a lovely daughter. But when I was pregnant, all kinds of discomfort during pregnancy and the fear that something might happen during childbirth suddenly made me feel that a woman, whether her husband loves her or not, should fight her fears when she is pregnant.

During my pregnancy, I kept asking my husband, "If something happens to me, I have some savings. Please help me take care of my parents from time to time. "

Therefore, during the whole pregnancy, I hope that the baby is a boy, at least he can no longer experience the pain and uncertain fear of the mother.

I'm afraid my daughter won't have enough confidence to choose the life she yearns for in the future. So I didn't relax during the whole pregnancy, and I have been trying to create better economic conditions for my children's future. However, what worries me is that I don't seem to have that ability.

Fortunately, my production went very smoothly. Looking back, the fear at that time may really be caused by anxiety during pregnancy. Now holding my daughter, I feel like I have the whole world. I have incomparable strength to shelter her from the wind and rain, and I believe she also has the courage to face difficulties.

So, don't be afraid, all problems will become non-problems as time goes by. Come on!

As an experienced person, I really felt that time was very painful, and it was also the shadow that I didn't want to have a second child in my heart. I really want to live a few more years. During the epidemic, I think most people will feel scared, let alone pregnant women. I think there are several reasons why women are afraid during pregnancy.

First, I'm afraid my body will be deformed after pregnancy. Now all men can look in the mirror for two hours. As a woman, I really sympathize with myself. Women love beauty and have strong requirements for keeping fit. But it is easy to get fat after pregnancy, so most women are afraid when they are pregnant. I think there are a few people whose arms and legs are still so thin, which is really enviable. Unfortunately, I belong to the popular series, and we are not stars with special recipes. It's really scary to watch yourself turn into a bear every day.

The second is to be afraid of this process of production or any accident in the production process, and to be afraid of all the unknowns. Although I will learn some things related to production during pregnancy, such as how to give birth smoothly or what preparations I need to make to go to the hospital. However, when watching TV, it is normal to say that the first child will be born slowly. Seeing the growling voice of the parturient on TV and how painful the delivery is have all increased the fear of pregnant women.

Thirdly, compared with the depression during pregnancy, I think the pain of giving birth is really terrible. Some pregnant women have a stomachache until the baby is born quickly, without much pain. I will always belong to the popular series. After two days of pain, I finally couldn't help but get an analgesic injection. I really don't have the strength to give birth without an injection The pain is really worse than death.

Although there is a device that can make male compatriots feel the pain of childbirth, it is only temporary and cannot be empathetic. Think about it. We were both pregnant in October. We can't bend over, cut our toenails, wash our hair properly, and endure cramps and swollen ankles from time to time. These are small things, but they will break us down.

The ancients said, "Women are weak and mothers are strong." . Motherly love is the greatest power in the world. Do you agree?

Hello! It's my pleasure to answer your question! Although I can't understand every pregnant mother's inner fear during pregnancy, I want to share something that scares me during pregnancy.

I am 90 years old. I've been married to my husband for half a year, and I'm planning to know that I'm pregnant unexpectedly, but I'm still a little scared. The source is as follows: 1. Although I am not young, I think my husband and I have always been mature enough. Like a child, I play and live as I like all day, fearing that I am not ready and will not take care of the baby. My husband and I don't have high salary. When we got married and bought a house, we borrowed mortgage and decoration loans, and also borrowed money from relatives, so the economic pressure was also great, and we were afraid that we could not provide good living and educational conditions for our baby. My parents opened a small shop and took my brother's children, so they couldn't help us. My husband's family, because there are old people at home and the sheep farm is busy, has never said anything about helping, worrying about who will help with the baby in the future. 4. Worried about the baby's health, because before the baby is born, listening to the special cases around you will always think of your baby. After all, I can't bring him into this world and let him suffer from illness from birth; I like my job, and I hope to achieve something in it. I'm afraid that having children will affect my future work development ... in short, I'm afraid of many unknown situations.

During the epidemic, it is best not to go out, because the research on the virus is still not in depth, and there are many uncertain factors, which are directly related to the baby's health. As for the source of income, you should give this important task to your husband. You can raise your baby with peace of mind, do some manual work or make shoes and hats for your baby, or write a pregnancy diary to divert your attention and keep a good mood. After all, the baby's health comes first.

The above is my answer, thank you for reading!

Hello, I was pregnant, and I was mainly worried about the following points:

First, I was afraid that my child would be unhealthy, because I was pregnant unexpectedly and didn't supplement folic acid before pregnancy.

Second, I am afraid that the fetal position is not correct, or the fetus is too big, so I have to have a caesarean section. I heard that caesarean section is more harmful to the lumbar spine, and I will often have backache in the future.

Third, I am afraid that there is something in my baby's stomach. Sometimes I feel nervous without fetal movement. My baby is more active. Once he did not move for a long time, and immediately went to the hospital to measure the fetal heart rate.

Fourth, if you gain weight, you are afraid that you will not lose weight. I had a big reaction in the first two months of pregnancy, and then I had a particularly good appetite. I weighed 150 kg before I was born. I'm thinner now, even more than ten kilograms thinner than before pregnancy.

Fifth, I'm afraid I can't take a bath after confinement. Fortunately, my mother and mother-in-law are more open-minded and the bathing conditions at home are also allowed. It is acceptable to take a bath every 2 or 3 days.

The above is my experience, I hope it will be helpful to the landlord, thank you!

I am afraid that my child will be unhealthy during pregnancy, and I am afraid that my child will develop abnormally during pregnancy. Generally speaking, I am afraid of not having this child, and I am afraid of having a child.

Communicate with other pregnant women during pregnancy, share and listen to other people's pregnancy experience, relax, don't be overly nervous, try to have a balanced diet and have regular pregnancy tests.

Why are you afraid during pregnancy? Uncertainty during pregnancy, fear of labor pain, etc. May lead to fear of pregnancy. Especially before labor, this feeling of fear is obvious.

Therefore, on the issue of having children, some people choose to overcome their fears, while others choose to avoid having children.

At the beginning of pregnancy, most mothers will worry about whether their children are healthy or not. Basically, most pregnant women will have it. Now the network is developed and you can see a lot of information.

The internet content is so bland that no one will read it. For example, a pregnant woman and a pregnant woman gave birth to a healthy baby and a deformed child. Therefore, the content of online reporting must be the latter.

Watching this kind of news too much will give us an illusion that there are so many deformed children now, but it is not. When pregnant women see this, they will inevitably increase their pressure.

Tips:

Many pregnant mothers are anxious because of their ignorance of some problems during pregnancy and their whimsy. I suggest you look at some common sense and some matters needing attention during pregnancy.

As long as you have a good attitude during pregnancy, don't imagine some bad things and enlarge your own problems.

There are no bad habits such as smoking and drinking in life, good nutrition during pregnancy, and regular prenatal checkups will basically avoid the problem of unhealthy fetus.

Speaking of fear in the third trimester, it is nothing more than fear of childbirth and pain, especially for primiparas, who have no experience because they are giving birth to babies for the first time. How painful is it? Can I bear it? Will the baby give birth smoothly?

A lot of doubts and puzzles, all kinds of worries, I believe most mothers will have such a mood. Mentality is very important, and pregnant mothers should also learn to coordinate their emotions. Really not good. Talk to someone to distract you. Watch funny dramas to relieve all kinds of tension.

The company of family is also very important, in fact, it is the husband. At this time, you should spare more time and energy, chat with your pregnant mother and tell her some happy things or jokes.

Worry about transition is another kind of injury, and mental relaxation is also an excellent protection for the fetus. Being a mother for the first time has tense moments. Just relax。 In fact, everything is fine!

I am a hemp with two babies. For me, I think I will be afraid that my baby will be malnourished in the first trimester, because there will be serious morning sickness. In the second trimester, I am afraid that all kinds of pregnancy tests will fail. Some people say that a pregnancy test is like an exam, and every time you check it, you are afraid of bad results. In the third trimester, I am afraid that the umbilical cord will wrap around my neck, but I can't count the fetal movements. The whole pregnancy is as fragile as a "virgin". I saw it during pregnancy.

First, give you a warm hug. Don't give yourself too much pressure. Take care of yourself during the epidemic. You can also look at many part-time jobs suitable for pregnancy at home on the Internet to earn some spare money.

If it doesn't make you feel more scared, you can talk about my fear during pregnancy.

1. The biggest fear comes from the fear of the baby's unhealthy development. Therefore, every birth check-up is like breaking through the customs. I always take my husband with me, for fear that I won't be able to carry it alone. And as long as people around you smoke and cough, they will stay away.

2. The next step is to worry about yourself. Because it is said that giving birth to a child is the door to death, I am particularly afraid of being confessed in the delivery room. What about the baby? Where are mom and dad? What about the husband?

Other people may be more or less afraid occasionally. For example, what if the child is left unattended? Should I resign and bring my own? What if there is not enough money? ..... but compared with the first two points, it's ok.

Let me also talk about a small way to make me not afraid. Try not to talk too much about my feelings with others, especially my baby mother who is almost one month old. Just check step by step. Tell your husband if you have any questions, and then divert your attention by keeping a diary.

After observation, most mothers are more worried about having boys and girls.

I'm not worried about this problem. During pregnancy, I was mainly afraid that my child would be unhealthy.

I had irregular menstruation before I got pregnant. Come once every few months, see a lot of doctors, take a lot of medicine, all have no effect.

Later, I saw the doctor, and she said that I had been here once every few months, which was normal, so I didn't need to see it.

I got pregnant after marriage. During the pregnancy test, the doctor said that progesterone was on the low side, and it was necessary to have a miscarriage prevention needle. I've had an injection for more than a month.

At that time, I didn't want to eat anything or drink anything. I vomit as soon as I smell food and as soon as I drink water.

So I am particularly worried about the unhealthy fetus. I can't help myself. I can't help it I throw up as soon as I eat it.

At that time, I was still young and didn't know how to adjust my mentality. In fact, as long as I have a pregnancy test on time, keep a good attitude and pay attention to a balanced nutrition, I don't have to be afraid.

If the mother is in a good mood during pregnancy, the child's psychology will be healthier.

So mothers try to make themselves happy during pregnancy, and the rest will be fine.