Why do relatives always like to watch other people's jokes? Who has nothing to do? What's the point?

When interacting with people, most people like to make friends with people with temperament, because the emotions of people with temperament are all on their faces, and others can tell at a glance whether they are happy or not. But sometimes, people who are easy to hang their emotions on their faces are more likely to be ignored or even looked down upon by others. This is because it is generally believed that emotional people are immature and cannot be entrusted with heavy responsibilities. So do women. Emotional and angry people are easy to be talked about by others after dinner, especially those short-lived things on their parents, which are more likely to be teased and ridiculed by others.

We often listen to old people's explanations. People in society have to be a person that others can't guess. Many older people also explain to their daughters? Wash your dirty clothes in public? Truth means don't show your emotions casually. Nothing is good except showing jokes to others. Women are faced with smooth career, harmonious family and loving husband and wife, and these are more personal things, understand? Restrain? Women must be silent and invisible, and only in this way can they gain greater benefits.

0 1 In the face of unhappy marriage, don't just know that crying marriage is the turning point of every woman's fate. If the marriage is happy, a woman will spend the rest of her life happily, while if the marriage is unhappy, a woman can only spend the rest of her life in Lacrimosa. Everyone will be taught by the teacher at the stage of literacy and painting: do your own thing well and don't compare with others. But in the matter of marriage, it is impossible for a woman to be alone, because the ship of marriage is tied to a big family, and as long as there is a little trouble between them, the ship is in danger of deviating from its course. I have seen such a topic: Has your husband ever done anything behind your back? The following answers are varied. It's hard to imagine that a man with a family can make some wrong decisions that ordinary people can't reach.

For example, a stay-at-home mother said that she learned from relatives and friends that her husband had been gambling and lost all the old houses at home, but she knew nothing about it. Some professional women also replied that they didn't expect to be rich and had a lovely child at home. Her husband has betrayed his marriage for three years and has been in the dark. It's really heartbreaking to know this. But what is striking is not the various irresponsibility of men, but the way women deal with the marriage crisis. Some people are still crying, and some people are silently maximizing their own interests.

Money and children are the only things that women can look at and compete for in marriage, and smart women will not cry and make waves to express sympathy, let alone let the world know that their husbands are on guard. They will quietly take back their things, collect good evidence, and let men never turn over the plate at once, just like Stella in the TV series "Perfect Relationship", who will handle it calmly without crying, and finally her husband will get the punishment he deserves. Crying is the roar of losers, and smart women are winners only after the Jedi fight back.

In the face of persecution from a family, learn to keep a low profile and resist. Personally, I, Su Like Mingyu, am doing well in everything, because she is a model of resisting family background. Su Mingyu, who is not loved by her parents, has been striving for self-improvement since she was a child, and her career depends entirely on her own efforts, and finally won the respect of others. Officer Ming? It seems that the title of employee is the recognition of her ability to handle affairs, but it is also the most weighty gift Su Mingyu gave herself. There are many girls around me, Su Like Mingyu, who are tied up by their families. They are not the only children. They have a brother above and a younger brother below, but they are really squeezed the most by their parents, because they are competitive, have formal jobs and have the ability to earn money.

Before, a colleague of the company had a brother at home who worked with a younger brother and got married early. His son is going to primary school. My brother thought that my sister was working in the city to take care of her children, so he wanted to take his son to school in the city. Colleagues are speechless, not to mention whether the schools in the city are so good. As an unmarried little girl, she helps her brother take care of the children every day. But she didn't cry or make trouble, and she agreed enthusiastically. First, she showed her to her brother? On purpose? Renting a dilapidated rental house means that you can't adopt it. Let your brother hit the wall and realize that the primary school in the city is not that easy.

My brother had to go back with the child in disgrace, although he greedily asked her for 10 thousand sponsorship money before leaving. She only symbolically showed her brother her bank card, and the 1500 yuan in it was vivid in my mind. My brother had no choice but to take it away. Seeing this, do you think she is too impersonal and affectionate? Not only lying, but also scheming? You don't know how much money she gave home after graduation. She helps her mother see a doctor, helps her brother buy a house, and helps him pay back his credit card. She has worked for five years, that is, these two years, and she has not left a penny. Haven't she learned? Be nice to yourself? . People should know how to advance and retreat, and enjoy the treatment as much as possible regardless of their relatives or friends. Don't always take advantage of others, not to mention moral kidnapping. I support women's cold-blooded selfishness, because since others can treat you with cold-blooded selfishness, why can't you protect yourself by dealing with a man as he deals with you?

Facing life, learning to step by step and having a down-to-earth mood will sometimes hinder a person's progress. Women's emotions often come very violently, and love and hate are easier to write on their faces. When love is expressed much, the weakness is exposed. The more hatred you show, the more defensive others will be. It is better to achieve your goal step by step quietly.

Women should not be soft-hearted in the face of betrayal, and should not shrink back in the face of oppression, because there is nothing to be ashamed of loving themselves, as long as you can move forward in a down-to-earth and low-key manner. Neither family nor marriage can be a stumbling block to you. When that moment comes, good luck will follow.