My sister hugged her brother for the first time, and her next reaction made netizens laugh: she thought it was a doll

With the development of the second-child policy, many families are having a second child. When some families want a second child, they hide it from the eldest child because they are afraid that the eldest child will not agree, and wait until the child is born. Inform the eldest children that they have become older siblings.

This move can allow you to give birth to a child safely, but it may cause problems with the child in the later period, and it will not be so easy to solve it by then.

A mother uploaded such a video on a social platform. The content of the video was the scene of a sister hugging her brother for the first time. After watching the video, netizens were amused by the reaction of the sister hugging her brother. .

It turned out that this mother had just been discharged from the hospital after giving birth to her second child. She and her husband did not tell their daughter in advance that she was going to be a sister. They wanted to give their daughter a surprise, so the scene in the video came about.

As can be seen in the video, the elder sister carefully hugged her younger brother. When she wanted to get closer and take a closer look, the younger brother suddenly moved. The older sister was shocked and her eyes widened.

Although her sister was frightened by her brother, she did not give up. After she calmed down, she leaned forward again and kissed her brother hard.

Faced with the scene of a sister hugging her brother for the first time, many amused netizens joked: "I thought it was a doll at first, but then I didn't expect it to be alive and move."

Although this scene is very heartwarming, this is because the elder sister does not reject the existence of the younger brother. If the elder sister has negative emotions because of this younger brother who suddenly appears in her family, then the results may be biased.

1. What are the consequences of having a second child without discussing it with the eldest child in advance?

1. It may cause conflicts among children

In the eyes of a child, both his parents belong to him alone. If a younger brother or younger sister suddenly appears and wants to share his father with him, Mom, it is very likely that the child will be repulsive, causing the child to target his younger siblings everywhere. At this time, it will be too late for parents to interfere in the relationship between the children.

2. It will have a negative impact on the eldest child’s psychology

If you do not tell the eldest child in advance when you are expecting a second child, it may make the eldest child feel that his parents are not around. I love him so much that I want to have another child, which will make him lose the sense of security brought by his family and lead to self-denial. In the end, it may lead to the child having too low self-esteem and affecting his mental health.

So when having a second child, how can we make it easier for the older child to accept it?

2. How to better persuade older children?

1. Make a good agreement

Many times, children don’t want younger siblings. Most of the time, they are afraid that younger siblings will take away their things, so they object. At this time, parents should make a good agreement with their children, telling them that what belongs to them will not be taken away by their younger siblings, and that their parents will love them just as much. This will not only make it easier for the older children to accept it, but also bring them closer. Parent-child relationship.

2. Give birth to a younger brother or sister to keep you company

When the older children don’t want younger brothers and sisters, parents can give birth to younger brothers and sisters to keep you company and make you less The reason of loneliness allows the eldest child to know that having a second child is so that the eldest child will not be lonely. This change can also greatly change the attitude of the eldest child.

A child's understanding of things is one-sided. When someone threatens his status in the family, he may take some drastic actions. Therefore, I would like to remind everyone that when you want to have a second child, you must fully consider the thoughts of the eldest child and cannot ignore the eldest child, otherwise the consequences may make you regret it later.