A man who can make his sister laugh, peach blossom is not too bad!

It is said that a sense of humor is a weapon to kill a girl. A man with a sense of humor may not look amazing, but when he opens his mouth, he can make his sister laugh their heads off, which brings them closer at once. However, once humor is not used well, it can easily become "teasing". I wanted to tell a joke to my sister but turned myself into a joke, which was embarrassing.

Humor is by no means telling dirty jokes in front of girls or copying online jokes a few years ago. To cultivate a true sense of humor, we need to start from the following aspects:

1, don't lose your self-esteem for humor.

Some boys think that "humor" can make girls laugh, and that as long as it can make girls laugh and make them happy, it can improve girls' goodwill towards themselves. To this end, they will not hesitate to sell cute treasures and pretend to be crazy. When they finally laughed, they thought victory was in sight. However, to take an extreme example, girls laugh at circus performances. Do they like monkeys who perform circus?

No matter what route you take, the most fundamental thing is to let the girl respect you first. However, no girl will respect a man who lost himself to make a girl happy-even if your value is high enough to be the master of a country, it is useless. Zhou Youwang's war drama finally made Zan and Zan laugh. The praise that deserves praise, didn't everyone fall in love with him in the end?

A man who doesn't respect himself and loses himself in order to please women will not be loved. Instead of racking their brains to find out what to do to make my sister happy, it is better to find a more attractive self-orientation. You are very attractive, and it is not easy to have a sense of humor in his sister's eyes.

2. When joking, you should distinguish the occasion.

There is a typical case about "a man who can't flirt with girls", and the brothers must have heard of it: the sister said it was too cold, and the boy jumped up happily and said, if you learn from me, it will not be cold.

This is a typical joke regardless of time. The boy in the case may think that he has a good sense of humor, but in the eyes of his sister, he is already a complete tease.

Humor is just a seasoning in feelings. Occasionally harmless jokes in daily life can really enhance feelings, but joking only when it is time to show your mature and considerate side will only make girls feel that you are naive and don't care about people and miss the opportunity in vain.

To make matters worse, many boys have no proper limits on what they say, and like to joke about sensitive topics such as girls' looks and figure. This is an extremely undesirable low emotional intelligence behavior, which will not only be rejected in picking up girls, but also be frustrated in daily interpersonal communication.

If you really want to "poison your tongue" and show your sense of humor, you might as well laugh at yourself. Men who dare to make fun of themselves are usually confident and easy to get along with, which is much better than making fun of their sisters.

3. Humor is a reasonable surprise.

Normal communication between people is reasonable and boring, because it has always been reasonable.

The mental patient's words were unexpected. If you ask him if he had lunch, he will answer that you watched a TV play last night.

If something is unexpected but reasonable at the same time, it can produce humorous effect.

Let's just give a joke as an example:

"An officer has a mentally retarded son who can't pee himself at the age of 10. One day, the officer suddenly thought of a good way to teach his son to pee-using slogans.

1, take off your pants;

2. Take out your weapons;

3. Turn over the skin;

4. launch;

5, turn back the skin;

6. Put on your pants.

The next day, the police officer heard his son calling in the toilet, 1, 2. ...

The police officer was glad that his son could finally pee, but ...

3, 5, 3, 5, 3, 5, 3, 5, 4444444444 Cool! "

Is it reasonable? Is it unexpected?

4. "Thought" is the fundamental difference between humor and ridicule.

The joke above is really interesting, but it has no connotation. True humor can make us improve our posture-this is the essential gap between "sense of humor" and "teasing".

There is a saying that a woman likes a man who can make her laugh, but in the end she will choose a man who can make her cry. This sentence is really one-sided, but it also tells a very simple truth: you make your sister laugh through humor or make her cry through touching or other emotional fluctuations. In the final analysis, it is to mobilize her emotions and make her feel good about you. Besides, a sister will never only have a crush on a man who can tell jokes. What really interests her is your idea and connotation.

What's more, if you look at Stephen Chow's classic comedy movies and some vulgar funny movies now, you will know that there is a world of difference between "humor" with thinking and "humor" without thinking.

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