Does the adult world have pure feelings?

The world of adults is not all about intrigue, but under certain circumstances, there are pure feelings, which are as follows:

First, feelings based on * * * the same values

In the past, many people thought that it was a material basis, but in most cases, it was not entirely related to family interests. But the equal strength makes it easier for two people to have the same values, which can't be forced. After all, a child who grew up in the countryside and a child who grew up in a rich family have different values.

In this case, the feelings are real, because you don't need the help of the other party, and you don't need the help of the other sparrow to become a phoenix. Therefore, in the case of strong alliance, there is no need to be hypocritical.

feelings based on * * * shared values

Second, feelings based on * * * shared goals

Feelings without purpose only exist in novels and romantic love TV series, but feelings with purpose do not mean that they are not pure feelings, but feelings with * * * shared goals are the purest feelings.

For example, the revolutionary friendship and the revolutionary couple in the wartime shared the same goal and fought for people's liberation all their lives, so their feelings were pure? Free from distractions. Modern society also has such feelings of being together for the same goal, such as figure skating partners. Their common goal is to show the most beautiful moment, so they will trust each other in competitions and training and encourage each other at ordinary times. For example, the couple of village officials who are trying to improve poverty-stricken villages, they will work hard to introduce funds and improve the environment in the village, and there are many similar people. These are pure feelings.

Third, the feelings of mutual achievement, mutual protection and support

Pure feelings do not mean that you love me unconditionally, but that you achieve each other, protect each other, and support each other. This kind of feelings includes lovers and close friends. In ancient times, men died for their confidants, while women were pleased with themselves, which is not nonsense.

mutual achievement and mutual support

These three situations do not exist separately, but are often mixed together. For example, the suspects in the popular American dramas tracked Poi? The members of the team belong to the pure feelings of supporting each other and achieving each other under the same goal of saving the number, which is beyond the feelings of ordinary people.

In reality, there are many such examples. For example, one of my university teachers, she and her husband, one is the dean of an academy of sciences, and the other is a doctoral supervisor. Both of them came from the first road of the scholarly family. They belong to a strong alliance, and they are suitable for each other and have achieved each other. They never worry about trifles.

In a word, the pure feelings between adults are the feelings of appreciation, admiration, worship, dependence and so on, which are based on the same values, certain background and certain goals.